I think, with all, you are doing for them, they need to compromise more. They seem to be picking over small things when, in fact, they should be thanking you. Maybe your DIL feels guilty about leaving her all day. But id be tempted to have a quiet word with son regarding your concerns. Difficult because obviously you don't want to fall out with them and be unable to spend time with your GD, but best tackle these issues before they grow to unpleasantness. I'm with you regarding dummies. If a child doesn't ask for it, then it's not needed.
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