Definitely not lovely jubbly! So Hyacinth Bucket. Pompous & cringe-making ... as with 'hubby' & 'wifey' teeth automatically go on edge.
GracesGran 'I'm his niece' - ten out of ten! V. insightful about the social-climbing, dreadful Hilda in 'Rumpole' as well. Still an absolute favourite programme - I treasure my old videos of it! Love the books as well.
Am in the camp of Saggi & others who feel that your wishes should be respected, Katek. Perhaps you could start referring to your DH in company as 'my old man,' 'this geezer 'ere' or 'the mush what I'm stuck with' til he gets the message?
Luzdoh 'gentleman wife' & Bluebelle 'this is my sister. sorry'
Pollyperkins, excellent point about an increasingly bizarre world where none of us - male or female - ever know if anything meant respectfully or sociably will bring down some strange wrath upon our confused heads. Lots of immature people out there who just enjoy being aggressive, I think.
MawBroon, my father/grandfather sometimes said 'the Memsahib' - tongues firmly in cheeks, of course! Various others in family still used 'the Dutch,' 'the old Dutch,' & 'trouble-&-strife' til quite recently. (I was also a 'dustbin lid' & a 'Gawd forbid' to them which I thought was marvelous!) If the old Dutch happened to be in a (usually quite justified) strop she then became 'er Nibs.'
There's something so lovely about the regional/old-fashioned terms like 'our lass' and 'wor lass.' Sort of comfort-foody. Have always quite liked 'er indoors' as well, it's just so funny - & I miss 'Minder.'
I'm a rotten book-bore, but if anyone's interested, 'She Who Must be Obeyed' which John Mortimer put to such wonderful use in 'Rumpole' comes from one of Rider Haggard's adventure novels, 'She.' She of the title is a sorceress-queen in Africa & SWMBO refers to her. Dreadful book really ... it involves hot-pots most definitely not of the Lancashire variety ... but worth it for the immortal phrase! (Don't mean to sound as if I'm implying others don't know this ... sorry if it came across as patronising ... there's a fine line between sharing & just seeming a snooty swot!)
Peaches, many thanks for including those of us on our tods!