I get what you say bikergran and agree in general but there are so many different stories about this incident and I have learnt from experience that you should not be too quick to judge at this stage. People who witnessed the incident have said Ant was clearly traumatised and he could have been still over the limit from the night before and not realised when he got in the car: I find it hard to believe his mum wouldn't have known if he had been drinking that morning or clearly still drunk, especially as they spent time together prior to getting into the car. The family involved are not acting in good faith as far as I am concerned - if my young child had been involved in an accident then, yes, I may have taken them to hospital to be checked just in case, but then I would have been at home, making sure she was mentally ok and dealing with the shock of an accident myself, not giving interviews. Very questionable behaviour, I feel. Until further details and actual facts are available, I will not be making any sweeping judgements - had this done to me (totally different circumstances) and it is shocking how even people who you thought would know better question you due to speculation.