We always said when we bought a place together that it would be a country cottage surrounded by garden, roses around the door etc...shop, pub, church. Ideal we thought.
But as other have said, head ruled the heart when we chose our 'forever home' together. We needed facilities, theatres, parks, a choice of shops, bus stops nearby, a station in the town, restaurants, cafes, cinema, doctors, hospitals, sports facilities. We know from experience that having to drive to get a newspaper or a bottle of milk becomes a real bind after a while. The quiet and seclusion is lovely, but only in short doses. We both want to be in the thick of it all until we pop our clogs, or become immobile and needing care.
We found a lovely house in a busy market town, surrounded by open countryside and lots of pretty villages so we think we have the best of both worlds. The pretty cottage was a dream we happily waved goodbye to.