If you use the preview button, it helps you to think if you have said things correctly, my spelling certainly needs a check, but even then I sometimes don’t see it.
I think those that don't are in a minority. It's often cathartic to type out your feelings about something anyway with no need for anyone to read it but you.
I do this too! Squiffy I also avoid the politics threads, as the tone of those can get quite unpleasant and I often don’t feel well enough to deal with it
I sometimes delete a post but not because it's controversial - I just reread it and think "Oh, that's boring, so who is going to want to read it?" I nearly deleted this one too!!
ChaosInc I do the same! I avoid certain threads altogether because I don't feel robust enough to join in! (we all know which threads I'm referring to!)
As there's no edit function on Gnet, once you have posted a message, you can't alter it or delete it - unless you ask admin to take it out. So if you aren't confident about a post, it's wise to make the decision not to post. I sometimes find myself doing just that too.
I do that sometimes. More often I type a long reply then forget to press post and it disappears. I did that recently twice so I ended up writing it 3 times. By the 3rd time it was much shorter and no longer relevant as the discussion had moved on. Also I find it annoying that if I'm interrupted in the middle of writing eg telephone rings or DH wants something when I come back it has vanished.
You aren't alone in writing out a response then putting it in the bin. I do it too.
The other things I have been caught out on is not fully reading all the other replies before I post and because it takes me so long to type my post can just be a repetition of what others have posted.
This moring I again found myself typing long response to a post, with much attention to content. And then deleting the entire thing without posting!! What a ridiculous waste of time!
There are times when I say my piece, but more often than not I delete.
Is this just sensible practice in the more opinionated forums....or am I the only person consigning viewpoints to the trashcan?