kitty I'm so sorry for that very sad family. The young man must have been in a very difficult place indeed. His parents will struggle to understand what is perhaps not understandable. Your last post certainly brought a smile here, you never know dinner may not go wrong 
Helo, lona, good to see you back. I also like your username heavensjoy, I often wish mine was, well not sure what, maybe less boring.
Busy old day here today, flipping development stuff again, at least we're never bored. We love our little home and the location but sometimes, just sometimes we look at each other and say 'why oh why did we do it?'.
I also had hoped for news of panache, I was putting the Tenby/Caldey photos on the computer earlier and of course thinking of her.
You may well not be clutching at straws nankate, its good to be as positive as we can lets think as positively as we can. I hope you are coping with your flare up and have a comfortable evening and night.
I can understand you being flattened by your visit greyd, we have a friend living in Wales who is deteriorating with each visit, we always come away with heavy hearts.
Oh dear, so much sadness around. My only claim to amusement today is to have been so convinced it was Saturday that I was quite insistent with a neighbour who was chatting away about what she does on Fridays
. Oops. She is 20 years older than me
and very kindly explained it my mistake. 
Oh well, onwards with the evening. There will eventually be a glass of cold white but before that a bit of tidying. I don't need to know what day it is to do that 