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I Hate "The Wife"

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PamelaJ1 Thu 06-Sept-18 14:40:54

My husband referred to me as- the wife. He only did it once!

Teetime Thu 06-Sept-18 14:16:27

My husband (also a bowler) refers to me by my name or as my darling wife - aint that nice?

glammanana Thu 06-Sept-18 11:49:35

boheminan Woops grin

boheminan Thu 06-Sept-18 11:47:35

Rufus - the word 'hubby' irritates me to hell and apparently there's a lot of 'em lurking aroundhmm

glammanana Thu 06-Sept-18 11:44:51

Rufus2 I totally agree,I am not my hubby's possession and he is so aware of how he refers to me if we ever meet up with pals of his I do not know.
On a more endeared introduction I have been called "she who should be obeyed" or "my better half" both of which I find acceptable (depending on my mood) grin

Rufus2 Thu 06-Sept-18 11:27:45

An expression that irritates is often used at my local lawn bowls club, "the wife", as if she's an inanimate object; much as I would refer to "the lawn-mower", "the car".
Vera would have killed me if ever she heard that, with it's connotations of "housewife"etc.
What's wrong with the given name? Much friendlier; and safer! grin