So much sad news to catch up with today.
ann hopefully you have had a much calmer start to the day. Please take good care of yourself where you can...shock does sees to have real effects on the second day, as we age. When 'stuff' has happened here, the wobblies and tiredness always seems to come out the day after.
Someone mentioned that the person who shouts the loudest tends to get the attention and sadly, in todays system, it is absolutely true. Please put your own health on the agenda when you see the SW, and tell them that you can't cope....because as long as you appear to be coping, the system will let you carry on. At whatever cost. 
panache you are one of the bravest, and most indefatigable people that I 'know'. I have read your blog, and it must have been difficult to share your current problems so openly with us. Thank you.
I wish there were simple words which might ease your worries, but can only offer thoughts and prayers. And the companionship of sharing the buggeration of COPD.
I hope MrPs' appointment went well 
soop I hope you and the adorable MacS are thoroughly enjoying your treat. We await pictures!
Maw my deepest apology for changing your DGC gender in a previous post! I obviously misread.
morethan...that phone call must have caused an overload moment, however much you love the family. You have so much stress at the moment. Sometimes the transition from school to workplace is transformative. Fingers crossed!
Wonderful baby news Nonna ...and all our expectant kitcheners. I also worry terribly through family pregnancies. Is it a granny thing?
I am apparently expecting a new addition to the family, and am not at all sure about it. DD1 & partner have dogs rather than children Currently two, the youngest is their preferred breed .... which is elephantine in size, with energy levels to match. They had intended, in a year or two, to have another puppy from the same breeder, who has become quite a friend. It seems that they are now taking a one year old from her, who through no fault of his own, needs to be moved due to another dogs aggression against a young male.
That will be two elephants, and a half elephant. He arrives next weekend.
Suspect I shall need to remain seated through visits from now on, as just one elephant has bowled me over twice in the past.