It was so nice to see this post. I stopped presents for nieces and nephews when they were 18, which was a big relief. For years now my Son has asked what I want for Christmas and birthdays and I always say I will let him know when I want something, which I never do. This year, after watching a Martin Lewis show, he said in future no adult presents, just the children, which I find a great relief as I never know what to buy. I haven't had the discussion with my daughter yet, but I know she will take a lot more persuading. It's so different now to when we were kids, the only time we got anything was Christmas and birthdays, but nowadays if they want something they just go out and buy it.