Oh Dear! I am feeling glad I live alone! Yes - I agree this is passive aggressive behaviour - the silent treatment. Although it gets a lot of cover in the "How to cope with..." videos and is often linked to something worse. That sounds rather reminiscent too (re 'because he knows it teases') I was thinking of the end of The Tale of Jim by Hilaire Belloc "Always keep ahold of Nurse, for fear of finding something worse.
So - for me "something worse" is a person who will not talk things over. Someone who cannot discuss things in an adult give and take manner without being dismissive of those who disagree or worse, denigrating them. Plus this - being unable to accept a different opinion or it being demonstrated that they were wrong. It's too exhausting and distressing to be with such a difficult and hostile kind of person. I was treated to the silent treatment for days at a time. It is worse than just a silent sulk. It has a very bad physical effect on the person trying to create communication. It is done as a means of demeaning them. My husband, who did this -and more - to me, I was told by many Clinical Psychologists and Psychiatrists with whom I worked, was a typical Covert Narcissist. Apparently they are the nastiest as they are hard to recognise. Anyway I learned a lot about it all and other things because I too studied Psychology.
I noticed that he hates being wrong etc. Most of us do, it's quite a human thing. But as adults we've usually learned how to cope with it and laugh it off or apologise if necessary. Most of us don't push our opinions too hard out of respect for others' feelings. I wondered just how badly he does insist on being right? There are degrees of it I suppose and if he really seems to believe he is infallible he might be impossible to cope with! Then you explain that you have to adapt your behaviour and you use the phrase we hear so often from abused wives that you go round "walking on eggshells." Now you may not say you are being abused, but it is a fed flag phrase. It shows you cannot be relaxed and be yourself in your own home. That you are apprehensive and have this prickly "watch out!" sensation the whole time. This means your adrenaline is raised. You have cortisone in your blood-stream, you are in Fight or flight mode and your immune system is compromised. If it is a constant situation, it can contribute to the laying down of fat cells especially round the waist area! Living constantly in this vigilant walking on eggshells mode like this wives become unable to realise it is not normal.
The "how to cope with..." as far as I remember advise you say, when the man is not answering or is talking unnaturally, something like "I see you are not able to discuss things as an adult at the moment, so I will leave you to your infantile sulking until you are ready to speak sensibly." Or something like that which is appropriate to their situation. The lady said think of them as a three year old having a tantrum, because the sulking only befits a small child, and speak to them in exactly the same way.. hence the old fashioned Nanny voice of "I will speak to you when you can be sensible!" type of treatment!
I would be unable to stay with this man even for the good moments. I fear he is only blackmailing you with those.
The reason I am so sensitive is that I had 22 married years of a bully (and worse) who did these things and more. I used to live for the odd day when my husband would say "do you want a coffee?" he didn't say anything else. We ate in silence. I used to talk to him and he might grunt if I said I was going out now. All the time I would be fearing the next time he would go off on another bit of the heavy silent treatment where he would not answer a question at all to punish me for something or maybe just for the sake of it. some years after he died, I was bugged by another man who though different in many ways was the same in the having to be right and his silent treatment was terrible! The trouble was he would not leave me alone for a day. Obviously I did not live with him but he was like a limpet, yet he did awful things.
Yes, I am so much happier on my own!