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When to tell Long Distant SO about denture

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What2do Sun 30-Jun-19 23:57:17

Sorry, SO = Significant other...

Esspee Sun 30-Jun-19 23:49:24

What2do May I ask who paid for the plane ticket?

Esspee Sun 30-Jun-19 23:46:33

Onaclearday SO usually stands for "significant other" probably partner being the best synonym though I've never seen it used for someone you have never met.

onaclearday Sun 30-Jun-19 23:24:34

Sorry for typo

onaclearday Sun 30-Jun-19 23:24:04

Sorry to be thick but what does SO stand f for?

Callistemon Sun 30-Jun-19 23:18:57

just don't leave them in a glass by the bed …..

What2do Sun 30-Jun-19 23:13:51

Thank you all for your feedback and advice, it was most comforting...to answer some questions, I am 51 years old she is 48, hmmm, I did say she is vain....more about HER looks however she the kind of person that finds ugly beautiful...I am going to catch some hell for this but just being honest, she has chihuahua's....and loves french bulldogs.....I honestly think those two animals put the ug...in ugly....however, she loves em...am I vain, hmm, great point...guess I am a little...however, I would rather be w/ someone who is beautiful on the inside and maybe not so much on the outside, outside beauty fades w/ time...inside beauty IMHO...grows more beautiful each and every day...

Thanks everyone for your kind and QUICK responses...this board is excellent!!!!

BradfordLass72 Sun 30-Jun-19 10:04:56

Stick your dentures in firmly. And be sure to take off your rose coloured spectacles.

I'm not sure how old you are but surely you must know it is impossible to tell, when you haven't met someone, and have been in long-distance contact only 6 months, whether they are wonderful or not?

Loneliness can make a person vulnerable and, sadly, gullible.

Keep your hand on your ha'penny as we say in Yorkshire and try to see reality rather than what your loneliness is urging you to accept.

eazybee Sun 30-Jun-19 09:41:48

'She's a wonderful woman, a little vain..'
And you are not?

seacliff Sun 30-Jun-19 08:42:35

How old is she? How do you know she is vain?

EllanVannin Sun 30-Jun-19 08:26:55

So long as it's firmly in place why worry ? Don't sneeze !!

Grammaretto Sun 30-Jun-19 07:31:54

Welcome to gransnet What2do.
I'm afraid your post made me chuckle. I think your anxiety about the first meeting is causing you to worry about something so seemingly unimportant.
Good luck with the meeting . Try to forget about your teeth but avoid toffees.

NfkDumpling Sun 30-Jun-19 07:14:26

Its only a denture. She may well have one too.

Willow500 Sun 30-Jun-19 07:08:33

How do you know she doesn't wear dentures too - it's not an issue you should be worrying about! Good luck with your meeting.

tanith Sun 30-Jun-19 07:04:50

Why do you need to tell her? If she finds out in the fullness of time so be it. Unless she is incredibly picky it won’t matter a jot.

What2do Sun 30-Jun-19 03:57:08

Hello - I'm new here and wanted to reach out for some guidance or advice. I recently started corresponding w/ a woman from South America. We met on On line dating site, we have been talking for about 6 months and she's coming to visit me next month. I was wondering, should I tell her about my denture before she comes here or wait to see her and tell her face to face? She's a wonderful woman, a little vain but is very kind...to be honest, we have fallen for one another however NEVER met...this is our first face to face meeting and I am so excited...however, I feel I must tell her at some point...the question is tell her over one of our phone calls or face to face...any advice??????????????