Thank you all for your feedback and advice, it was most comforting...to answer some questions, I am 51 years old she is 48, hmmm, I did say she is vain....more about HER looks however she the kind of person that finds ugly beautiful...I am going to catch some hell for this but just being honest, she has chihuahua's....and loves french bulldogs.....I honestly think those two animals put the ug...in ugly....however, she loves em...am I vain, hmm, great point...guess I am a little...however, I would rather be w/ someone who is beautiful on the inside and maybe not so much on the outside, outside beauty fades w/ time...inside beauty IMHO...grows more beautiful each and every day...
Thanks everyone for your kind and QUICK responses...this board is excellent!!!!