I think that perhaps this young couple do have to realise that it is only the popularity of the RF that keeps them where they are! They live a life that most of us can only dream of, BUT there is a sting in the tail and that is, that in order for us to go on bankrolling the RF in this life, they in return have to keep our affection by, like the Queen, always be available in public with a smile, interest in what we're doing, admire our children, accept our gifts, wave to us ,and ALWAYS be gracious even on the worst of days! Being off hand and dismissive just won't do, and if these two insist on being grand and unapproachable , then the best thing they can do is live quietly abroad!