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Sophie22 Sun 04-Aug-19 19:33:09

Hi we have been together now for 19 years and things was great until we got 2 dogs and it changed my husband ever since we have never been able to go away without the dogs and they are now 10 years old as he would not leave them, he never takes me out says we cant afford to go out but he spends pounds on them and goes out with his mates and gets pissed i am so fed up and dont know what to do for the best.

GabriellaG54 Sun 04-Aug-19 21:17:16


SalsaQueen Sun 04-Aug-19 21:32:09

Surely the going out with his friends and getting drunk (but not taking you out) is more of a problem?

Have you told him his behaviour is unreasonable?

Minniemoo Sun 04-Aug-19 21:34:58

Not sure it's the dog's fault if he's going out with his friends!

mumofmadboys Sun 04-Aug-19 23:07:24

You need to talk to him more. Discuss kennels or friends staying in your house to dog sit so that you can go away. Good luck