I m in agreement with most on here it’s too soon it’s a decision made in a flap
I love all my children very very much but I would ruin that relationship if I lived with any of them We are all quite strong minded and it would go pear shape I know. I know some people manage it fine but I need my dependence. We would drive each other mad
You speak of three sons but only mention two as to proximity I totally agree that to buy a house that one inherits and not the other two is unfair and will cause rifts I would imagine
Mobility issues do not mean you have to move, with stairlifts and a wet room instead of a bathroom you could be fine and you can often get grants to help with these things
I couldn’t move twice ie renting temporarily as I find all that upheaval would totally wipe me out Moving is such a stressful thing to do
Personally I would go back to the beginning and rethink it all neither sounds the right solution to me but huge Good Luck for the future which ever way it goes and make some new friends now that you can x
Frank Field, Labour Peer has died, aged 81y.