I think you may have homed in on one problem cyclingsenior in that you may come across as needy s far as friends are concerned. You need to be comfortable with yourself first. If you have a hobby you enjoy or would like to try then that is a good way of meeting like minded people. Helping others as a volunteer in whatever sphere you are interested in is also good for meeting others. Relax and enjoy your life, you will find that will attract others.
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.