Jo1960, as you rightly say it was the best choice and most healthy for me and my girls. I think the salient word is "choice". I personally believe "Breast is best," but have also seen the distress my daughter and daughter-in-law went through because they struggles so much with breast feeding and, when they just couldn't do it any more, the guilt they went through because they felt that they had failed their child. My daughter went straight for the bottle with the second child and although it wasn't completely without problems, the difference in her ability to enjoy her child has been amazing. Healthwise, breast may be best, but it isn't always the bonding experience it should be so I've learned not to be such a "breast feeding nazi" as my daughter so charmingly put it!