Christmas alone....

It sounds wonderful, I’m sure you’re going to have a lovely Christmas.

The 25th to me is another day when most of the shops are closed. I also can eat and drink what I want. Depending on how I feel, I may paint my bedroom around that time because I will get peace.

I think your Christmas sounds perfect. So many people say 'Christmas just isn't the same once the children are grown'.
My husband and I have spent a few Christmas' alone and just as you say, we eat what we like, have time to open presents and watch our preferred TV programmes.

I think the Christmas adverts showing picture perfect families having the most wonderful time, unsettle 'aloners'.
Of course, family Christmas's are wonderful but can be very, very stressful too.

Well done for sticking to your own agenda.

Julia

If it’s what you want theoddbird then that’s fine, but many people do feel very lonely on Christmas Day.
In many cases they would love to be with extended family or friends, but it’s either unfeasible or they are simply unwanted.

If you choose to be alone that is great but it is nice to have been asked. Not having any choice is probably what defines being lonely.

Yes I agree rockgran... It is more about the perception that because it is Christmas one should not be alone. I just don't get why it is different to any other day where being alone is concerned.

It is actually quite difficult to be alone at Christmas. You have to hide, because if any neighbour or passer-by realises you’re alone they will insist you go to them. I’ve nearly managed it once, and it was wonderful until some well-meaning person came and interrupted King’s College Choir on TV. I felt I couldn’t say “Excuse me, I’m trying to watch this, so would you please go away?”

If you’re spending Christmas with your husband, you are not alone!