Gillybob. thank you for updating us. We all look for a word or two, when you have the time.
I am so sorry that there is no improvement for your dear DH, and we keep you in our hearts and prayers.
Never, ever, think you are selfish, how could we think such a thing?
Sometimes just writing your thoughts down, can be helpful.
We are all still here, and as has been said, if only there was something, anything, we could do, we would be there like a shot.
If there was, would you let us know?
Love and hugs to you and you family.