In America my son overused his credit cards. He took £40.000 of my money, not as I had hoped to pay the debts off. Instead he sends money to his girlfriend in America, who is very nice, but does not have a 'green card', being Mexican, with whom he says he cannot control. He gives £100 month to a friend for concession flights to L. A.
Has bought five vehicles, now being sold at a loss. He gives me nothing, and says he cannot afford to pay me back. If mention my concerns he becomes aggressive, will smash things around the house, abuse me, or hit me. To go to the police or doctors would be harmful for me. I have asked him to leave. but he will throw bricks through the windows when dark. He wants me to move into a care home, I am now 75, on medication but basically in good health. I am not allowed out of the house, garden, shopping, health appts. unless he approves, should he have to look after me should I tumble. Other son, gave £2.000 to pay their mortgage, worried about losing their house, went on holiday about two months later. Thoughts please.
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