My brother of 86 died yesterday. I haven’t seen him for over a year. I arranged to visit him but he forgot or decided not to see me. I was angry as I had had years of him not speaking to me and had had enough.
Recently I heard he was in hospital, I rang but he refused to speak to me. I sent a card.
I sent a Christmas card and left a Christmas cake on his doorstep but he didn’t open the door to me.
My nephew (58) could have told me he was ill but didn’t. He told me today that he wasn’t allowed to tell me that my brother was ill.
My nephew has arranged the funeral and asked me to write something for the vicar to say.
I started to do it then decided not to go to the funeral as, if he didn’t want me to know about him being ill, he would not want me to go to his funeral.
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