HELLO ALL..I feel slightly guilty saying this ....but over the last few years I’ve started seeing a friend I’ve known for quite some years just for coffee now and again which was fine but then she wanted our husbands coming along with us and that was fine only now it’s not now and again it’s every couple of weeks ,neither of them are really interested in what we have to say it’s all about them ,when we do get a word in their either looking over our shoulders at something going on elsewhere or it’s a quick acknowledgement and back to them ...my friend emails me everyday asking how I am ,I lost my mum in 2017 and she did help me through that but now I feel she’s suffocating me ...she wants to meet every couple of weeks ....and the constant emails and having to explain how I’m feeling everyday is just getting too much ....I’ve just been diagnosed with depression and I had a real tough year last year ..I just want to spend time with my husband and our family , but I don’t know what to say to my friend I really don’t want to hurt her but I need her to just let me be for awhile..
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