Private message

I had a PM here when I first joined...Andrew Someone or Other? Just wrote "hello", I blocked and deleted. (shrug)

Didn't realise until this afternoon. I had that message too. I've deleted it.
I've had strange calls to my mobile today too, from Latvia, Estonia and Somalia. They triggered the spam alert on my phone. Needless to say, I didn't answer them.

but SANDY a wink is as good as a nod lol.

I got one ... but am clearly not Miss Mariam’s target audience...

Thanks Eligran so was she looking for romance?

I was one of the chosen few.

So why didn't I get the PM? I am qualified in one respect at least.

Bluesky they join Gransnet just like everyone else. Anyone can join, and any member can send a private message. If the message is an unsuitable one, report it - they will then find that they are no longer a member, and they won't be accepted again!

Oh I m blonde but not loved this time ? don’t worry Monica we can cry into our porridge together

I have not had one for many weeks. I am sure I was missed out because I have had the lurgy and it is still around- she possibly did not want to catch it. I also am the wrong sex- oh dear- not a lot I can do about that.

Why didn't I get one, didn't I match up? I am not usually left out in the cold!

3nanny6 I've got red hair and didn't get a message either oh dear...

Lol I'd just send a smiley face and a wink saying no thanks too much effort required I'm lucky if u shave my legs and wash my hair for my own self worth at this point in life nevermind anyone else!!!!!!! Thank god u cannot picture message or have photos youd all be very dissatisfied I'm sure!!!!!

I've just reported Miss Mariam, a 29 year old girl from France looking for a man! She must be desperate to use a website for mostly old ladies.

Oh missed out again and I thought they said blondes always have more fun, perhaps I will go red and see how I get on.

Perhaps we should all bombard Mariam with short, two word emails?

NatashaGransnet.....thank you.

Thanks Natasha

So anybody can send you a private message? Surely only people on GN?

Missed out again!

I had that - twice! Thought she must be desperate!

Haha....no point in me visiting M&S for some lacy knickers then!!

At long last -I got one too!
But clearly her language skills have missed that this is a site for grandparents, the majority of them female

I had one, as well! Unfortunately, ‘Mariam’ seemed to think I am a man, so I had to disappoint her.