As it seems all of the posts above mine have had positive comments from other posters I would just like to thank @Urmstongran for starting this thread. It has been a lovely thread and one of the few I have ploughed my way through every page of - amazing how we can all find at least one nice thing to say about another person - for the most part I'd say a successful thread (with a few giggles and grenades thrown in). I don't enjoy good health and therefore don't post very often, so doubt my name will be familiar. When I do post it is usually relating to something I have personal experience of or can relate to (health, life, death etc) or when I feel able to offer a few words of support or comfort. Many of you have given me food for thought or laughs with the topics you talk about and I am often touched by the compassion we can show towards Gransnet members who are struggling, grieving, in pain or generally finding life hard. There are some of you I feel a strong sense of empathy with. I celebrate that we can hold different views, have constructive disagreements at times yet come together as a community when one of 'our own' need us. I would be disappointed in myself if I upset anybody with things I write and hope I would shut the hell up if I couldn't think of anything nice to say. I think the internet, and social media in particular, has been good for most but has also given a few people bad experiences or left them feeling less than welcome, fragile or sensitive - maybe we could all take that extra moment to think how we word things before public posts. Thanks again for an entertaining, kind, thoughtful and interesting thread Urmstongran.