something has been said somewhere that has upset you Marydoll. Rufus is a cheeky so and so but I don't think he's malicious
Jane Thank you! You're very discerning; somethings were said, way way back! Silly really!
I'd said something about it being the season of goodwill to all men,, not meant provocatively at all, more like tongue in cheek and Mary D posted a cartoon of a large woman with rolling-pin chasing a diminutive gent; , caption was "but not all men"! I wrongly assumed we were still in tongue-in-cheek mode and remarked that wasn't her DH because he was in long'uns not a kilt which DH would probably be wearing all day around the house Then it dawned that I was the one being chased., but by then she had hit the roof like being on a trampoline and the rest, as they say, is history My PM was blocked, she said, not that it mattered because I"d never dream of using it, but it showed me just how long some people can carry grudges; pops up on any silly occasion! 
OK Mary! Your version! OoRoo