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Lurkers' week: what's the best piece of advice you've ever been given?

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CariGransnet (GNHQ) Wed 11-Mar-20 09:19:36

It could be something tiny, or something life-changing. We'd love to know.

Mtc59 Wed 11-Mar-20 21:07:24

Never go grey,don’t put on too much weight and always keep your head on top of your bottom- by a retired headmistress on her 89th birthday!

kelleensc Wed 11-Mar-20 20:36:28

The answer to "why me?" is "why not?".

Kenver60 Wed 11-Mar-20 20:31:49

Never judge the ginger by the label on the jar.

Fran3669 Wed 11-Mar-20 20:22:11

Under-promise and over-deliver.

This is mainly work related; I work in financial services in case you’re wondering grin

glammagran Wed 11-Mar-20 20:14:48

You reap what you sow

Evie64 Wed 11-Mar-20 20:05:47

Mine was a quote by Eleanor Roosevelt , "Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent". Wise words indeed.

hollysteers Wed 11-Mar-20 19:08:53

There’s a lid for every pot (on relationships). How I wish some people I know could find a lid...

Harris27 Wed 11-Mar-20 18:35:27

Treat people the way you’d like to be treat yourself,

Wendy Wed 11-Mar-20 18:30:28

From the Water Babies. ‘Do as you would be done by’

harrison53 Wed 11-Mar-20 18:19:30

Don't be too fussy - life's too short to stress over every little issue.

Lainie45 Wed 11-Mar-20 18:17:10

This is so true and how I was brought up ?

Lainie45 Wed 11-Mar-20 18:16:23

Be kind to yourself ?

Bazza Wed 11-Mar-20 17:45:03

Treat people as you would want to be treated. Be kind. Remember you can never unsay anything.

Chewbacca Wed 11-Mar-20 17:20:08

What goes around, comes around.

Sawsage2 Wed 11-Mar-20 17:17:20

Love many, trust few and always paddle your own canoe!

Gransooz Wed 11-Mar-20 17:01:58

Advice from a schoolteacher when I broke my ankle running to catch a train home. Never run after buses or men, there’s always one coming behind. That goes for trains too! ?

seacliff Wed 11-Mar-20 16:29:07

Nothing very profound but have always followed it, and brought my boys up the same. "Always take your litter home with you (if there is no bin handy)"

Conni7 Wed 11-Mar-20 16:22:36

Before you say criticise think: Is it kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?

cmwmoonshine Wed 11-Mar-20 16:21:07

If you promise something do it whether it's good or bad
Never go to sleep on an argument
Both from my grannie who taught me everything I know x
And always do as you would be done by....( Water babies )

mtp123 Wed 11-Mar-20 15:21:34

Love it!

littleowl Wed 11-Mar-20 15:15:22

It wasn’t advice I was given, I read it and I love it:

“If the person you are talking to doesn’t appear to be listening, be patient. It may simply be that he has a small piece of fluff in his ear.” - Winnie the Pooh

Thecatshatontgemat Wed 11-Mar-20 15:09:19

My mother always said when tidying up was on the menu "don't just put things down, put them away".
So true.

BarJam Wed 11-Mar-20 15:08:31

Listen to what's being said not what you think is being said!

live7 Wed 11-Mar-20 15:06:53

After something awful that happened a nurse said to me - one day you will look back and it will all be in the past. Tomorrow is another day - a fresh start.

Chrisks Wed 11-Mar-20 14:55:48

Buy cheap, buy twice!