We lived on a small army base just outside a small village in Yorkshire. I was 7, my sister 5. Because it was so safe there( it was the early 1950s) and we were usually with the 12 year old boy who lived next door, my parents let us run free.
In a rough area of land just beyond our houses there were a number of steepsided water filled holes that we used to play round. One day my sister leaned over too far to pick a reed or something and fell in. She couldn't reach the bank, couldn't swim and the pool was too deep for her to stand.
The 12 year old realising he could do nothing, legged it for home to get help. I stayed with my sister and gingerly started trying to get into the hole, while keeping a firm hold on the edge to try and reach her. Thankfully I got hold of her hand and got her to the edge and then got out and helped her get out.
We started walking home, both very worried that we would be in trouble for falling in and getting our clothes all wet and dirty. We hadn't gone far before we saw the 12 year old and my parents rushing across the rough grass towards us.
Our parents were just so glad that we were safe and alive, that the state we and our clothes were in never arose, instead we were cuddled and loved and bathed, with hot drinks and a few extra sweets (sweets were still rationed)
I do not think I have ever been more scared than when I thought my sister might drown.
Have anyone ever hesitated to get help at home because of not much reassurance


