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Lovely words, anno x

Morethan, you are one of us and we are here for you when you need to unload. What are friends for, after all? (((hugs)))

Morethan Thank you for sharing your beautiful and precious photographs.
Last night's sunset is dedicated to you.

I shall return a little later. That's a promise.

Morethan - Please feel free to pop into this lovely warm kitchen at any time and offload anything to us all. I am sure I speak for us all in that we are here for you. You and your family have been through the worst time imaginable. I cannot begin to think how you all must be feeling. Your poor son and the children - its just too horrible to comprehend. You and your family have all of our love as always. Thank you for showing us the photos - this must have been so hard for you. Love x

Morethan thee is no way one syllable of your posts “infects” the kitchen. We would feel we had entirely failed you if you did not feel able to offload and share with us.

I have known sadness but this is something else - to see your own child, your grandchildren suffering so, your dear DIL and her parents too and to keep going, you are just amazing.
I am in awe of you xx

Dear morethan I hope happy memories can one day take the place in your memory of the harrowing time your whole beautiful family have just been through. (Still going through).

Keep talking about your beloved daughter in law, keep looking at family photographs, and please keep talking to your Kitchen friends.
It’s understandable you want a little time just to yourself, but don’t stay away too long. We hope to always be a source of comfort to you. ?

Dear Morethan You have been such a tower of strength for so long and an inspiration to many of us on here. Please don't ever think you can't come and offload. It's precious little but it's all we can do.

Morethan, thank you for sharing photographs of your beautiful, brave family; I don't know you or them but you have all made such a lasting impression with your continuing courage throughout your dreadful sorrows.
I rarely contribute to Soop but I cannot believe that anyone would object to your posts; if they give you comfort, then you
should continue.

Morethan you have all been through so much. What lovely family memories you have there. Those children will be a comfort to their father and to you all, and children have resilience that we seldom give them credit for. You have a hard road to travel. One step at a time.?

Thank you for your warm welcomes. I have made a lemon drizzle cake and divided it between me and my daughter and her family.
morethan2 I am so sorry to hear about the terrible time your family is enduring. My condolences. I'm having a break between babysitting stints as dg is napping.

Thank you Charleygirl. I'm not a contributor but having read morethan's heart rending post, couldn't read and run.

morethan the stories are heart-rending. If you want to offload on to our next thread please feel free to do so as we are always here to listen.

Kate1949 welcome.

A bit dull in NW London but very little rain.
TOYA

morethan What a beautiful family. So sorry

Dearest morethan
We are here for you to unload on, never ever think we will not be here for you.
My heart breaks for you all, but the thought of the children is almost too much to bear.
I hope and pray most sincerely that one day you will all find some peace and that happiness, in a different way, will
eventually come to you.

Please take all the time you need but please don’t stay away for us, only for yourself if you feel the need for time and space.

Oh morethan, no words to help other than please keep in touch with us, never think you can’t. seem so inadequate. Sending love.

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Thank you all for your lovely messages of condolences. We’re very sad here. The children are having lots of head and tummy aches. The girls in particular are having very stroppy melt downs. Yesterday when I had to try and calm things down my grandson(10) said “Nanna they can’t help it. It’s because our mummy died. Daddy was crying this morning because he misses mummy. I only cry at night so I don’t upset them” he’s a little hero. They are at least talking about their mum. For the last few months during the worst of her illness and death they haven’t said anything. The youngest burst out crying yesterday asking me “how will we get money now daddy can’t go to work” The little things they worry about! My son has coped really well up to now he’s kept himself busy...too busy really, never stopping but yesterday when I telephoned he picked up but simply couldn’t talk. I collected the children and it was obvious he’d been crying. It’s so upsetting witnessing all this pain in the people I love most in the world. I realise that this thread has almost reached its maximum. I don’t want this misery infecting the nice new kitchen. I think the next part of this harrowing journey maybe very hard so you may not hear from me for a long time while we try to get back on an even keel. You’ve been amazing letting me off load here. It’s helped me enormously. Enjoy the new kitchen. Here’s hoping for better times to come, for us all.

nanytopsy have a lovely time with your little grandson. ?
synonymous good to hear from you. Glad your DH is getting on ok. Hope the pain from the new leg settles soon. Hope the court case goes well.
maw So good to hear your family turned your anniversary into a day of good memories for you and happiness. Such lovely flowers.
purplepixie sorry your friend is still in hospital. Worrying for all of you.
daisyboots hope you are ok. Sounds good you are reducing your pain killers. Hope the scan results are good,
galen sense of humour still in tact I see. Wot they are all the chocolate cake ?. Lemon drizzle is good though. Glad you had a good time with the family.
Take care all TOYA ?

So many posts. I will have to catch up one page at a time.
puzzler I did indeed have a good night at the Argy...at least what I can remember of it ?.
susan what a lovely chap Henry is. Glad he’s getting on better.
Hello grandmabatty and welcome to this lovely kitchen.

Galen, it's good that your chocolate cake was appreciated. GC, in my experience, have an insatiable appetite for cake. My oldest grandson's first word was 'cake' and he is now, at 16, a very good cook. So there's hope for you that the tables will be turned.
I must have been asleep for a while as I hadn't realised that Dreamkeeper had gone back to being Panache. I'm very glad about that. Good to see you to the fore again, Panache and adhering to the restrictions of lockdown, though you do have a pleasant environment. The weather forecasters tonight say that it will be warm (even hot) towards the end of the week. One extreme to another? It's been a dreary weekend here.

Good evening to you all, I hope everyone has had a peaceful Sunday. An update on the alpaca wool hunt. I had a lovely pm from a fellow knitter with info on a supplier of good quality wool. I have a supply on the way so am a happy bunny. Baby blankets on the horizon. I am being lazy am comfortable on the sofa and have just realised I am late putting out the food for the nightly hedgehogs. Two come before dark, I could be in trouble if I don't move. Have a good night all.

Children who insist on sharing your bed have that effect Galen! DGC have gone home and we have had a nap! It was good to see them and I enjoyed seeing the 6 yo vegetarian eat three helpings of steak pie. Apparently it’s little piggies he doesn’t eat. ?
Ok time for the highlights of the cricket!

MacS sorry, my fingers have a life all their own when they see a keypad!!

I just love the sweet things of life soop - lemon drizzle cake, chocolate cake, anything homemade ?
I hope you have a very laid back Sunday evening with MacD and hope the top of his poor head isn’t giving him too much trouble.

Galen Correction...has excellent taste for the finer things in life.

Daisyboots I echo Puzzler's kind words. Please do pop into the kitchen whenever you feel that us lot can be of comfort. You are going through a traumatic experience. Please accept our very best wishes.

Galen Whoever demolished your chocolate cake (and didn't leave any for us) have excellent taste in the finer things in life. I suppose we'll have to settle for lemon drizzle cake...big portions, mind.

We had a visitor and he stayed a very long time. Now I'm all behind with my afternoon routine. It was good to blether. No complaints.

Thinking of you all and hoping that your evening is peaceful and pleasant. Virtual hugs for everyone.