After my father died, eventually my mother went into a home and we sold her house. The loft was packed full of stuff and also the garage. Love letters between the two of them were bundled up, I didn't read them and in fact destroyed them Somehow it seemed to be intrusive.
My father had kept the bill for the second hand 3 piece suite they bought in 1946 and which they somehow carried home. He also had the bill for its re-upholstery. He'd also kept wage slips from his earliest employment at the National Physical Laboratory in Teddington, which I think still exists. And much, much more besides, including my ID card which I still have.
In the garage there were old saws belonging to his father. My other half still uses them - much better quality than today's apparently. Also other tools and equipment, some old scientific instruments from my grandfather which I still have. Solid, had made from brass with ground glass lenses etc. Also some lovely wooden shapes for technical drawing.
My father had cut down the settee from the 3 piece suite and we were given the 3 armchairs when we moved into our first joint home together. We then had them recovered when our fist house was renovated. They are bergeres with cane sides which over the years had been ruined by various dogs laying on the chairs and then spreading themselves. They have since been re-caned. I passed one chair on to some friends who had always admired them and the other two are awaiting recovering. I bought the fabric about 20 years ago and it's still waiting to be used.
We gave most of the furniture to a charity who either sold it or gave it to homeless people who were being re- homed.
I was sad having to get rid of so much personal stuff but we too am a great accumulators and at some point will have to sell much of our collections if and when we downsize.
One of our friends is an artist and so there are lots of his work in their home. Plus they are avid collectors. Their eldest son, when he visits, is always telling them to get rid of stuff and to stop buying things. They furnished a holiday home in France, mainly from Emmaus, and did very well. She has an enormous stash of old cooking pots and pottery, the kind with flowers on and they managed to accommodate all the small things when they sold the French house and bought a second home in Suffolk.
So much stuff that the immediate families of most people just don't want. It's very sad.