My husband has disabilities which mean he finds it very difficult to be physically active. Obviously, that mean I do most things in the house and garden, and he would love me to spend every minute with him, for company. There are times when I would love to be able to talk to someone (about worries, or even just gossip) and I achieve this by emailing people, and joining in discussions such as this one. I now have a "pen friend" following a request on Gransnet! We can chat to one another by email and exchange photographs, views on books (we both like reading and gardening) etc. We have a "computer room" where the Desktop Computer lives, and he does "pop in" sometimes, usually just to check that I'm OK. We both have smartphones, but as I'm partially sighted, he can see and read my phone, so not really private. If we visit anyone, or go out anywhere, out of necessity, we go together. I can't travel alone, and he would not choose to go anywhere without me, but since we get on very well and enjoy each others company, this isn't a problem. It is nice though, to be able to chat and know that only the person you are speaking to, can hear you!