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What would you say to your younger self?

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annodomini Sun 20-Sept-20 21:43:52

Don't commit to a man before you've met his parents. wink

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Lucca Sun 20-Sept-20 21:38:02

Don’t be so daft.

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annsixty Sun 20-Sept-20 21:18:39

Don’t live with your mistakes, you don’t have to.
Correct them and do better next time.
No one has the right to tell you how to live your life.

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Grannybags Sun 20-Sept-20 21:01:00

Don't be in such a hurry to grow up
Don't get married so young, enjoy life first
Be financially independant
It's ok to put yourself first sometimes

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annsixty Sun 20-Sept-20 20:56:21

I would say, don’t marry young, have a life first.
I don’t regret my choice, just the timing of it.
I have felt I missed out on so much worrying about mortgages, saving for the future etc.
I was a working wife from the age of 21 as were many of my generation.
My GD is 21 now, no responsibilities, enjoying life as much as is possible in 2020, but better times hopefully ahead.
I envy her.

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Foxglove77 Sun 20-Sept-20 20:33:34

I was given an old photo of myself aged about 8 by my Mum. Looking back at myself I looked a little shy and a little cheeky. 50 years later I would say to that little girl, dont listen to the bullies who make fun of your nose, they are just jealous of your slim figure. Dont worry about yearning for a pony, you will have your own pony from a foal for 32 years. Dont be sad wondering if you will ever have a boyfriend. You will meet your husband at college and be married for over 40 years with 2 children to be proud of and a lovely grand daughter. Dont worry about your career, your secretarial background will lead to a property law position which will serve you and your family well. Dont be sad, there are great times ahead!

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