My late OH had a lovely, mellow voice. Because I always delete my voicemails when they're dealt with I have no recording of him and I miss his warm tones so much. I can't even hear him "in my head" most of the time and that has been one of the worst aspects of grief. While sorting out his accumulated "stuff", I've found myself longing to stumble over an old tape recording or computer file with his voice on it but I think that's not going to happen and his voice is lost forever. So sad.
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