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Chatting to strangers - do you?

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Urmstongran Mon 05-Oct-20 17:20:53

I do it all the time, always have. Only a comment or two, pass a compliment on and a smile. It’s nice to be friendly but without being intrusive.
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BlueSky Mon 05-Oct-20 17:20:45

No I don’t talk to strangers in fact I feel quite uncomfortable if they talk to me. Not to worry my DH does and I’ve told him many times there’s no need to chat to everybody he meets in a queue!

fevertree Mon 05-Oct-20 17:18:53

DiscoGran that was a Jim Reeves song! grin

fevertree Mon 05-Oct-20 17:17:54

I absolutely love what my friend calls "random interactions with other humans". Yes I talk to strangers.

DiscoGran Mon 05-Oct-20 17:17:42

I'll talk to anyone, in queues it passes the time. And you know what they say, a stranger is just a friend you haven't made yet.

They do say that don't they? I didn't just make that up?

BlueBelle Mon 05-Oct-20 17:14:32

I talk to anyone anyone and everyone if they look as if they don’t want to engage I shut up bu most people are up for a chat
When my grandkids were younger they used to say ‘who was that Nan’ And I d say ‘I don’t know’ and they d give me a ‘shes is totally mad‘ look

queengran Mon 05-Oct-20 17:11:25

I was in the bank on Friday and started chatting to the lady behind me who looked a bit dazed and confused. She said it was only her 4th outing since this all began. She lives with her a elderly mother who has breathing issues and is still shielding, and her sister is in a care home. She had a mask on, and a shield. I really felt for her and tried to keep her chatting for as long as I could. She is (relatively) safe from the virus - that is not at high risk - but is shielding herself so as to protect those she loves. It must be so lonely. I know we're all probably sick of the be kind message, but really she looked so grateful for a chat, I'm going to make a point of starting conversations with more people when I'm out and about, not that that's very often though. It might be the only conversation they have that day, and sometimes for me the only conversation I'll have aside from with my DH. I will take a hint though if they look like they'd rather be left alone! grin