BladeAnnie hope your sad day was manageable and you are safely home with your thoughts and memories. Sending you a ((hug))
Soop I don't think that Fern is saying 'woteva' - although I'm sure she is cheeky enough. I read recently that the slow blink at you is a cat smile. I've tested it with mine and I'm sure that's correct. I said to our hairdresser today when complaining about trying to show a smile behind a mask (impossible!) that maybe we should all try the cat smile. All that screwing up of eyes otherwise is very difficult and unattractive. Sorry that Fern has her own timetable which would make me just as anxious, I feel. Maybe her wild and free days are something that she wants to hold on to - at least she comes back to you, which is all you want. Just imagine the state of your poor nerves if you were owned by the itinerant Miss Tara. ?
Loved your pusscat photo, kitty. Wish mine would play, they could have so much fun - but the closest they get to playing is a wild skirmish which results in one of them on the norty step and one put outside to cool off. Daddy has just lit the wood burner - works better than drugs for them. They will be calm and quiet in a trice.
Wishing you all an equally calm evening. Good wishes and ?♀️ to missing Kitchen peeps. Thinking specially of you, Izabella and Mrs and Mr Panache.