Song writers simply have to find words that scan with the tune/melody.
I still cringe when I hear Frank Sinatra singing "My Way", not just because of the self-justifying lyrics but because I always remember how he arranged to have divorce papers served on Mia Farrow on the film set of "Rosemary's Baby" because he had told her not to accept the part as it would involve him being left on his own.
Being so much older than he expected her to be a stay at home wife at his beck and call, but here was a major role that would help her in her acting career. She explained this to him this but he wasn't interested as he believed that he came before her career.
When she disagreed with him and defied him he arranged to humiliate and upset her at work. Of course the lyrics were written by someone else, not by him. I just think they are rather "unfortunate".