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Which Name Would You Choose?

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FannyCornforth Mon 18-Jan-21 09:36:47

For Yourself, I mean?

(Hello by the way smile)

A bit of light relief on a Monday morning.

What name would you choose for yourself - first, middle, surname, whatever?

One thing that I miss about MN are the baby name threads, I love thinking about names, I think that lots of women do, whether it's from a baby point of view or due an interest in words.

I suppose it depends upon what 'suits' you aswell...

And has anyone ever called you something else for a prolonged amount of time?
When I did voluntary work at a museum, another volunteer was of the firmly held belief that my name was Heather (it isn't).

I'm undecided at present what name I'd choose, but I will mull it over while you post yours (please!)

Thank you x

Marmight Tue 19-Jan-21 09:35:02

We considered Isabelle for our first DD but every time it was mentioned my Mum would add ‘necessary on a bicycle’ which was a bit off putting ?. Same with Flora, which I loved. So many people said ‘Flora?! You can’t name a baby after a margarine’. We kept very quiet after that on names for the next 2DDs.

Marmight Tue 19-Jan-21 09:26:53

Witzend. One of my GS is named John after my late DH (who wasn’t late at the time!) I was surprised but it really suits him and of course now its lovely to have the continuity of the name in the family.
Happy Birthday Fanny

FannyCornforth Tue 19-Jan-21 09:26:11

Nope! Not Chloe, Olivia or Louise.
Molly - love the Rumpelstiltskin reference smile

Casdon Tue 19-Jan-21 09:17:09

FannyCornforth is it Louise? My sister is Louise and had exactly those problems as a child, but then the name boomed.

FannyCornforth Tue 19-Jan-21 09:07:50

Ah! Thank you everyone! You are very, very kind! thanks

LauraNorder Tue 19-Jan-21 08:56:15

Very happy birthday ??FannyC ??

Mollygo Tue 19-Jan-21 08:46:01

FC, guessing your name wouldn’t be as dangerous as Rumpelstiltskin but probably as tricky!

Witzend Tue 19-Jan-21 08:44:07

@Fanny Cornforth, Olivia?

Calendargirl Tue 19-Jan-21 08:44:01

Chloe FannyCornforth?

Mollygo Tue 19-Jan-21 08:43:58

Happy Birthday FC.???

Witzend Tue 19-Jan-21 08:41:54

A name I’ve never heard of anywhere else is Wilmet - but that was in a novel by Barbara Pym.

The character says she was named after a character in a novel by Charlotte M. Yonge, her mother’s favourite reads.
I’ve never read any of those but presumably BP didn’t make that up.

Calendargirl Tue 19-Jan-21 08:39:45

? FannyCornforth.

Will try and guess your name.

FannyCornforth Tue 19-Jan-21 08:35:39

One of my friends is named Stella.
Her mom said it was after a story in one of the girls' magazines - 'Stella by Starlight'.

FannyCornforth Tue 19-Jan-21 08:33:40

Kenver when I was a very little girl, my name was very unusual; lots of people thought that it was made up; and it seemed that noone could spell it.

Then 15 - 20 years down the line it became ridiculously popular - common as muck even!

When I was a mature student a few years back it seemed that half the much younger women were called it.
I'm 49 (today actually! smile) can anyone guess what my name is?

Witzend Tue 19-Jan-21 08:31:18

The name I remember most from comics is Lettice Leefe - the loveable duffer!
I think she was in the SchoolFriend - I’m sure someone else will remember.

Talking of which, I was once delighted to find in a 2nd hand bookshop, the exact same SchoolFriend Pets Annual I had for Christmas in 1958! I adored that book.
I still have the ‘find’.

Witzend Tue 19-Jan-21 08:25:11

I often wonder when the classics John and Mary - the most popular by far for centuries - will make a comeback.

Dd said she’d have liked John for Gds - uncommon but classic - but it didn’t work well at all with his surname.

My paternal GM was Rose, which IMO is lovely and never really dated. I’d have used it as a middle name for a dd but my DM never really liked her MiL so she’d have been very put out!

Dd used it as a middle for Gdd1, though.

Kenver60 Tue 19-Jan-21 08:25:10

I had a very unusual name, people use to asked me if my parents had made my name up . I pretended my name was Wendy as a child. As an adult I am happy to be different.

Grandma70s Tue 19-Jan-21 08:15:30

My names are all right, classic and unembarrassing, but I’d have liked something a bit more exotic. I am always called by my middle name, which does cause problems, but I answer to either name.

As a child I passionately wanted to be called Beryl. I don’t know why I picked on that, but there were a couple of ballet dancers I admired, Beryl Grey and Beryl Goldwyn, so I suppose that’s where I found it.

My surname before I married was very unusual and hard to pronounce and spell. I rather reluctantly took my husband’s name, and found it a relief at first not to have to spell it every time. Now, though, I wish I hadn’t. I miss my interesting surname.

I have two friends with relatively unusual first names. One liked the fact that she was always the only one with that name at school, the other hated her name for the same reason! I’m with the one who liked standing out..

FannyCornforth Tue 19-Jan-21 08:06:42

Witzend yes, regarding revival of names...
I don't think that it will be long before we hear of names that were popular during the 40s and 50s.
Pamela, Patricia, Susan etc.
I think that Margaret could have the potential to be very popular.
Any thoughts anyone, on the next big thing girls' names wise?

Calendargirl Tue 19-Jan-21 08:01:35

lemongrove

FarNorth

39SJV07 the mean girls I remember were Mabel and Veronica from the Bunty - I heartily disliked their hairstyles, too, especially the way the hair was shaped around their ears.

Goodness me, what a memory you have!
There seemed to be a lot of Mary’s in girls comics but I can’t remember any other ones.I read Girls Crystal and Bunty and can’t remember a thing about them now.

It was The Four Mary’s in Bunty.

Mary Simpson, Radleigh, Cotter and Field.

Mary S was the clever one, Mary R was an Earl’s daughter, Mary C had plaits, Mary F was good at sports.

Then there was Miss Creef, form teacher, and Doctor Gull, head.

Mabel and Veronica were nasty, always got their comeuppance eventually. Used the phrase ‘Utterly, utterly’ a lot.

As you can tell, I was a huge Bunty fan, wished I could attend St Elmo’s School For Girls.......

Must stop now.....

Bazza Tue 19-Jan-21 07:59:35

I always fancied being a Francesca, or possibly Saskia. Loathe the Christian name my sainted mother chose for me.

Witzend Tue 19-Jan-21 07:51:13

My mother really hated both her first names - evidently fashionable when she was born in 1918 - so all 4 of us were given classic names that she thought wouldn’t date. I’ve always liked mine but my sisters weren’t so keen on theirs, and one has always been known even professionally by the nickname her not much older brother gave her when she was a baby.

Funnily enough that has turned into a relatively common name now - Mia - but we’d never heard of it at the time. When Mia Farrow was first well known - long ago now - we thought she’d pinched it!

A granny hated her name, too - Phoebe - but that went through a newly fashionable stage too, ditto some other really (to me) old lady names from that era. Poppy is just one I used to associate with whiskery old great aunts!

I do sometimes wonder how long it’ll be before some of the very popular names from my schooldays will be recycled - it seems to take at least 3 generations. Nice names, but you don’t hear of any baby being given those now. Or at least I haven’t.

lemongrove Mon 18-Jan-21 21:41:03

FarNorth

39SJV07 the mean girls I remember were Mabel and Veronica from the Bunty - I heartily disliked their hairstyles, too, especially the way the hair was shaped around their ears.

Goodness me, what a memory you have!
There seemed to be a lot of Mary’s in girls comics but I can’t remember any other ones.I read Girls Crystal and Bunty and can’t remember a thing about them now.

Sophrosyne Mon 18-Jan-21 21:36:28

Love the names Leonora and Fenella.

Have gone through life having to spell both my first name and surname - luckily don't have a middle name! My first name was very unusual at the time my mother gave it to me in the 50's, especially as it is the male version of the name, though it became popular later using the female spelling of it.

When I started junior school I told the headmistress she had spelt my name incorrectly and she retorted that her spelling was correct and mine was wrong. My mother was furious with her not least because I started junior school at the age of four and had been taught how to read and write by my grandmother before then.

olddudders Mon 18-Jan-21 21:18:42

My first marriage was to Deborah Clare, which I thought were pretty smart forenames. When she died I was lucky enough to get married to Charmaine Ruth, which I think is also a cracking pairing. Sadly she doesn't agree and has called herself something else for the last 60-odd years. My first name only has three letters, and quite suits me.