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A True and Tried way to feel better - even in a pandamic!

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FannyCornforth Wed 20-Jan-21 11:03:25

Sorry Applegran blush
Hope that you don't mind me barging in like that with my party poppers!

Ellianne Wed 20-Jan-21 11:01:47

Happy birthday Lucca! Enjoy yourself. flowerscupcake

Lucca Wed 20-Jan-21 11:01:36

Thanks ! But you’re a mere spring chicken I believe! Somebody snuck in and wrinkled up my face and made me 71 ......

Searching for me ?. I’ve been sounding off on the vaccine misinformation threads quite a bit !!?

Ellianne Wed 20-Jan-21 11:00:21

I am always grateful for even small things and think that writing them down daily helps to see the best in life. I agree it's a bit like counting blessings and looking on the bright side.
Friends, dogs, nature are just a few.
(I could moan I have no pension for 5 years yet, but what's the point?)
Nice gentle thread Applegran. I am grateful.

FannyCornforth Wed 20-Jan-21 10:54:48

Lucca! I've been searching high and low for you!
Happy Birthday! smilethankswinecupcake
Hope that you have a marvelous day xx
(It was my birthday yesterday btw, we really do seem to have quite a bit in common smile)

BigBertha1 Wed 20-Jan-21 10:54:11

I dont keep a diary but I do try to check in with myself now and again and think about how fortunate I am and how far I've come.

Lucca Wed 20-Jan-21 10:49:44

I’m grateful for the cards and gifts I received today including a bag left in porch for me containing flowers chocolate expensive wine and a fillet steak !!

FannyCornforth Wed 20-Jan-21 10:30:46

Even if you don't decide to keep a Gratitude Diary, it's a lovely way to end the day 'in your head'.
Just before you go to sleep (or try to!) go through all the good things that you've got.
It's the same as Counting your Blessings; as old as the hills - whichever is no bad thing.
Thank you for reminding me of this Apple.

Urmstongran Wed 20-Jan-21 10:29:14

So many things.
Good health, the love and closeness from family and friends, a regular pension in the bank, good food, warmth and BOOKS to read!
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Redhead56 Wed 20-Jan-21 10:28:46

What a good idea I am grateful for my life now and my family. I look out and see birds and squirrels in the garden which I adore watching. The trees coming into bud raises my spirits and my cosy home with something always bubbling on the stove.

Sara1954 Wed 20-Jan-21 10:27:41

Just can’t think of three things this early on a horrible wet windy morning,

aonk Wed 20-Jan-21 10:26:53

I think I should keep a gratitude diary. At the moment I’m very grateful that my DIL is better. She was rushed to hospital at the weekend suffering with chest pains which have been diagnosed as a virus. Not that virus! Also I stood outside with my DS yesterday while he opened his birthday presents.

Sara1954 Wed 20-Jan-21 10:24:15

Lovely idea

lemsip Wed 20-Jan-21 10:16:52

I'm grateful that I received my first jab yesterday.

Applegran Wed 20-Jan-21 10:07:29

Lots of studies have shown that keeping a Gratitude Diary, even just for a few days, makes people happier for quite a long time afterwards - and some people keep a Gratitude Diary every day. Every evening you write three things you are grateful for that day - and why they made you grateful. For me it might be seeing snowdrops coming out, white clouds in a blue sky, a smile from someone, a bird singing, listening to some music I love - they are not likely to be big things, especially in a pandemic - though for me receiving my vaccinations certainly counted! And how about simply having a warm bed to sleep in - if you have? When things are hard it may seem impossible to find anything to be grateful for - but they are usually there if you look for them. Would you keep a Gratitude Diary? What are the things you are grateful for?