I must make a point of finding something besides the S of M with him in, to watch.
For me he will probably forever be Captain con Trapp - partly down to dd1 being addicted to it ever since someone gave us a pirate copy of the S of M when she was 3.
We were living in the middle of the Abu Dhabi desert at the time, there was nothing on TV for kids (or non Arabic speaking adults) so anything at all to watch was hard to come by. Dd adored it from the word go. Until then I’d never seen it and was convinced it must be loathsomely corny, so was pleasantly surprised.
For me one of the most erotic moments ever on film, is the scene where they’re dancing together at the ball - the Ländler? - and suddenly, without so much as a whisper of anything remotely graphic, the rush of sexual attraction on her part is obvious. And so she runs away, back to the nice safe abbey....