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Does anyone else have a ‘help me get through this ‘ Mantra?

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lovebeigecardigans1955 Mon 08-Feb-21 13:32:07

I try to tell myself, "Come on, you can get through this - you've been through much worse" and mostly it works. If not, I'll allow myself a little wallow. Then, "Get on with it, there's bound to be a solution."

Oopsadaisy1 Mon 08-Feb-21 13:28:56

I know, if DH tells me to get off of the roof one more time I will be very cross.

Peasblossom Mon 08-Feb-21 11:26:23

My mantra? Whatever. ?

Peasblossom Mon 08-Feb-21 11:25:21

I think I’ve become a student, not an old woman.

Staying up late, drinking endless coffee, eating whatever is in the cupboard, indulging in debate, devouring books, wearing nothing but jeans and sweatshirts.

By my lifestyle I’m about nineteen.

Oopsadaisy1 Mon 08-Feb-21 11:20:47

Oops where did that stray P come from? Sorry

Oopsadaisy1 Mon 08-Feb-21 11:19:34

I had one when our daughter was very ill, it was part of a song
‘Everything’s gonna be all right, everything’s gonna be ok’ it went round and round in my head and kept me from thinking of the worse case scenario.

Recently I heard that Clint Eastwood says every morning ‘Don’t let the old man in’ to himself.
Toby Keith wrote a song about it (it was used in a Clint Eastwood film) and another line was ‘ if you didn’t know when you were born , how old would you be?’
My new Mantra is now ‘Don’t let the old woman in’ I dread being the person who naps in the afternoon because she’s getting on a bit and then slows down.
Obviously if I’m ill and need a sleep that’s a different matter, but I’m not going to act like an old woman until I’m unable to move around and do things.

So p, just wait until lockdown ends, I’m not going to act my age, just the age in my head. Better warn the family I guess.