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Are some people born lucky and some born unlucky?

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MissAdventure Wed 10-Feb-21 18:20:01

Some people don't get a chance to make anything of their lives, because they die young.
That's fairly bad luck, I'd say.

Grandmabatty Wed 10-Feb-21 18:17:45

I think everyone can have spells of good or bad luck but intrinsically we make our own. I don't really believe in fate either. I've had some experience of both good and bad. I believe that life is what you make it.

MissAdventure Wed 10-Feb-21 18:08:54

I suppose a lot has to do with how someone perceives their good/ bad luck.

aggie Wed 10-Feb-21 18:03:36

No they were lucky in that they proactively chose a different path to that set out for them .
My Mum always said we make our own luck
I know several people who had unsuccessful cataract surgery , some whose hip surgery didn’t work
Why blame Luck

songstress60 Wed 10-Feb-21 17:42:29

I definitely believe this and it does not have to be to do with wealth and privilege. I think it's the planets, lucky stars but I really do think some people have more than their fair share of bad luck and others escape many of life's problems. I have a friend who lost her parents when she was 21, got married at 22 and was widowed at 30, and 10 years ago one of her children got breast cancer. I have had nothing but financial setbacks for several years and it started again in January where things went wrong in the house. which cost me a fortune and I thought after a cataract op at the beginning of the month at least that would go right. It hasn't and I have been left with a haze on the cornea which needs an urgent test. I have to have a scan at the back of my eye next month. Now everyone I know has had successful cataract ops even people I know in their 80's! so I
firmly believe s0me people are unlucky. I once worked with someone who was very lucky. He came out of the army and was supposed to be waiting for a job in DSS but had a look round the corner at the local ICI while he was waiting got taken on there and became a senior manager. He was made redundant from there and straight away landed a job at DSS. We had a boss who was lucky like him with parents who helped him get on the property ladder and he also climbed up the career ladder. He has never been ill or had any problems where I and my friend have had nothing but problems! I am the only person I know who has had complications with a cataract op. It is very hard at times not to feel bitter at the unfair division of luck.