I doubt if either the recording of private conversations or the listening in to them, although unfortunate, were deliberate acts of spying. I have no idea how these things works but it sounds as though things could easily go wrong and cause trouble between people.
Feelings are hurt on both sides. No amount of explanation, argument or discussion, even with good will on both sides, will change that, but the hurt needn’t be permanent.
My advice would be to try to agree to put it behind you and look forward, not back. I know it’s not easy, but families have to compromise all the time.
One day you might even be able to laugh at the memory of that disastrous Christmas (when you both learned a lot about each other).
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