ShelaghALLEN When the engagement of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle was announced, almost everyone in the UK was quite openly delighted, and that includes the British press.
There was no hint of racism, of course there will always be a few racists in any society, but the majority of us took a lot of pride that ou and that the royal family would soon be as culturally inclusive as its society. Their marriage started on a the crest of the wave and most people were delighted that someone who seemed so troubled had found happiness.
While I understand Prince Harry's fear and hostility to the press. To be finding all this hate, racism etc etc he constantly talks about he must have had teams reading every word every paper published and metaphorically leaving no stone unturned, to find it. I think also, which again I do understand, he is inclined to see insult and offence where none was given or intended.
I am sure there was an outpouring of hate on social media, which is uncontrollable, it must be deeply unpleasant, but that happens to anyone in the public eye and such deeply unpleasant people will focus on race, sexual threats if you re a woman, and anything they consider a 'weak' point. I am not defending it, but that is not something the media have any control over
That we have now fallen out of love with the pair, followed their decision to withdraw from public life. It was not the decision itself irritated people. That was their prerogative, it was the way that hey did it.
The couple's decupling from Britain reminds me of Brexit. In both cases, one entity wanted out, but only on their terms. 'We want to go, but only if you give me this, that and the other', and inevitably it ends in arguments and bad feeling.
If they had said they were leaving and had gone, leaving royal privileges, honourary roles and demands for this that and the other and retreated into private life it would have been fine, but they didn't, they wanted to keep all the bells and whistles, Royal patronages, honourary roles as colonels of regiments, etc etc. And of course once they crossed the pond their 'private' life was open to everyone willing to pay for access. It is their desire to have their cake and eat it that annoyed many, including me.
As for the accusations of bullying, I doubt that surprises anyone. It was quite clear from the start as newspapers constantly reported changes in the staff of their private office, that it was not a happy place to work and since the tone of someone's private office is set by the principals, in this case the Royal couple, it is clear that they must be the cause of the unhappiness.
I have no interest in last night's interview. i would only be so if I knew it was their swan song and that they now intended to retreat into private life, to be happy and enjoy their family and stop demanding privacy and hogging the limelight.