When you moved to another area or something happened in life did you ever make a conscious effort to change something ? When I was young I went to uni away from home and I decided not to be the quiet, shy type of person I once was. What a liberation. Had an absolutely fantastic time, pushed myself at parties etc. My little granddaughter is quite quiet and shy but when she went on stage, wow, she was a completely different person. Gave me an insight into what goes on below the surface for her.