Peasblossom. I was wondering if young people have a different view on this. We always send birthday and Christmas cards but they don't seem to bother with cards. I think maybe this could be a generation thing? He did not ask them why he was not invited, he asked 'Had Olivia been Christened, when was the Christening?' against the picture. He thought they would reply, but they didn't. His son doesn't do WhatApp. My son does messages him with my help as he cannot read or write since the stroke. (He has aphasia) I think all my son wants is for my Grandson to contact him now and then, and just to ask how he is, (twice a year would be enough). He doesn't mind how. Rather than only replying when my son or I message him. He's thinking if he stopped contacting his son, would he ever hear from him again. I don't know.