My parents weren't very well off so from the age of 14 I did office cleaning 5 days a week before school at a neighbour's company. From about 15 I also worked as a cinema usherette 3 weekday evenings and weekends. I can vividly remember trying to do my homework at about 11pm when I got in from work having been up since 5am ☹️. It did affect my school work and not surprisingly my exam results were mediocre. Thankfully when DH and I had children we were in a position that we could make DD an allowance. She never had a part time job during term time at school or at university, it does make a difference. She had jobs during the long vacation though and has an excellent work ethic.
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