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Biscuitmuncher Sun 30-May-21 19:14:51

My front garden is nice and cool, the back garden gets all the sun. So in the evening we sit in the front with a drink. The amount of times we've been tutted at by people walking by! So is a front just for show?

loopyloo Tue 01-Jun-21 07:28:28

In the winter lockdown, I went past one house where the neighbours were outside chatting, socially distanced of course, with a slow cooker on an extension lead, full of mulled wine.
Was miffed that I wasn't offered a glass.

rubysong Tue 01-Jun-21 09:34:55

We have a 'sit ootery' in our front garden where we have a cup of tea at 3pm each day when the weather is nice. It is in a raised up area, partly secluded. We nearly always see passers by to chat to. This is a very friendly village and we have been here for over 40 years so lots of people know us. We love it.

Corkie91 Tue 01-Jun-21 10:42:19

I have bluebells coming up in my garden every year they increase in amount annually too. No idea where they come from as I never planted them and I dig them up completely when they die down too

Nannan2 Tue 01-Jun-21 10:56:42

All day till about 6 we have sun at back, but as sun moves over the house gets sun at front- so when one of DD's called other wk for first time in about 18 mths we got fold up chairs from our little brick shed(also at front) & sat out for a half hour- (she was late & then went to her sisters first)so she arrived at right time of day for sun at the front! We dont normally sit in front though as its not very big& the wheelie bins are out the front. And folk have to pass ours as theres a path runs along our row to get to their homes.But in general no one ever even looks as they pass, but if they did id have said "tut yourself its my garden"! ??

Beanie654321 Tue 01-Jun-21 10:56:47

During lockdown we had a street front garden afternoon tea it was brilliant. I think lockdown bought so many more neighbours friends.

janipans Tue 01-Jun-21 10:58:51

We had our front garden/drive updated during lockdown - (spent our "holiday money"!) and we moved a bench round from the back so we could have morning coffee out there and chat to passing neighbours etc. It just seemed quite normal to me having lived in Cyprus where everyone sits outside all the time and when we had to shield, just seeing other people passing by and giving/getting a cheery wave was nice.

sazz1 Tue 01-Jun-21 11:01:12

I'm my road most people sit out on patios they have built. We all have quite long front gardens which is nice.

ReadyMeals Tue 01-Jun-21 11:18:33

My front garden is for my multitude of wheelie bins and to keep just about tidy enough that the neighbours don't tut.

dizzygran Tue 01-Jun-21 11:19:05

Sit wherever you want - ignore comments by ignorant people. I remember my gran used to like sitting in her small front garden - she used to chat to lots of people and neighbours passing by. Enjoy your gardens whether back or front

Alioop Tue 01-Jun-21 11:24:36

That's awful, it's your garden to do what you want in, raise to your glass and say "isn't it a lovely evening", nosey sods. When I'm out in the front garden weeding or mowing everyone passing always has a good look at what you are doing so I'm glad I can sit in the back one in peace, it gets most of the sun anyway. My front windows are very large and you can even see them looking in them, I just wave.

Millie22 Tue 01-Jun-21 11:27:39

Front gardens are great but really in decline as new build houses don't have one. Builders say people don't want one but I suspect it's to save on land use. My old neighbour used to often spend a whole day tidying up the garden but in reality she chatted to everyone that passed by. Mine has a beech hedge and a wildlife area.

Edith81 Tue 01-Jun-21 11:28:37

I live in a maisonette and don’t have a garden but the front of my house faces West so I sit out there to catch some rays and it’s lovely to see the neighbours otherwise I would not meet anyone.

cassandra264 Tue 01-Jun-21 11:34:56

It's your garden!
However, whatever you do in it which does not badly impact on your neighbours! good if you can keep room for a few plants in a flowerbed. It is thought these days that if you pave over your front garden, you are making it difficult for excess water to drain away. This now common practice, as people want more space to park cars, is responsible for flood damage becoming worse on level streets than might be the case otherwise.

jaylucy Tue 01-Jun-21 11:39:33

Only grass and moss grow in my front garden as one side is shaded by a hedge, the other gets full sun all morning then it is shady in the afternoon. I have tried growing shrubs there but they only last for a couple of years in the dry sandy soil, whatever type they are.
I think that next time someone tuts as they walk past, ask if they would like to join you as you have a bit left in the bottle you would like to finish before starting a new one!

4allweknow Tue 01-Jun-21 11:41:32

An awful lot of front gardens are now paved over for parking often without the required dropped kerb. I think it looks horrible. One along the road is very large and makes the house look like a builders yard. Great you still have a front garden helping the environment so enjoy as you please.

Theoddbird Tue 01-Jun-21 11:47:15

I have a friend who has a front garden that looks out over farmland across a quiet country lane. I have said many times that he should get a little bistro table and chairs to sit in the evening. He is making an area by his French doors at the back to sit Such a waste of space at front with the gorgeous view

Bijou Tue 01-Jun-21 11:50:41

I live in a cul de sac with mostly fairly large front gardens. My garden although paved has beds of shrubs and flowering plants and trees. (I wish I knew how to get a photo on Gransnet). A lot of the gardens are either neglected or gravelled. Next door looks like Brighton beach with weeds. I am the only person to sit in the front garden. But there are few passers by because they all use their cars.

jocork Tue 01-Jun-21 12:08:04

On the rare occasions I have been gardening in my frnt garden people have often stopped to pass the tie of day, usually older people walking dogs or neighbours I know slightly. I don't understand tutting, after all it's your space to do as you like with. My back garden is east facing so nice to sit out in the morning but rather shady during the afternoon and evening, but I'm not one to sit outside very often. If I was, the front garden would be best in the afternoon and evening.

Mishy Tue 01-Jun-21 12:09:05

My old house had a sunny front in the late afternoon/early evening so frequently sat out with a vino, in the morning the sun was in the rear and it reached temperatures in scorchio! I think I can sit anywhere in my garden cos I pay the bills!

olliebeak Tue 01-Jun-21 12:10:58

Marydoll

I fancied buying some Lily of the Valley plants a few weeks ago. However, the price was extortionate and as I had already spent way over my budget, I resisted! Now I am regretting it! sad
I also have one random bluebell plant growing beside my bins! No idea how it got there! ?‍♀️

If it's got some soil extending around it, that one bluebell plant will eventually travel along to provide a row of them grin. That's what happened with mine. There will be seedheads that should also help to spread it. www.swog.org.uk/forum/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=1572

Midwifebi6 Tue 01-Jun-21 12:20:15

We have done house sitting in the past when the house owners were away on holiday and want us there for security and to feed their chickens and Cat/Dog and looking after the Ph levels in their swimming pool. My husband and I were drinking a cup of tea whilst admiring their front garden when a woman walked slowly past the house with her dog, looking at us intently, I said “Hi” she never replied a short time later two police cars and four police officers arrived because they had reports of “criminal were in the front garden” lol. We laughed about it later but we stayed in back garden for the rest of our stay.

Marmight Tue 01-Jun-21 12:23:53

I don’t think anyone can be precious about which garden one uses although stripping off and sunbathing for all and sundry to see might be taking it a bit far! ?.
My front garden is my garden. It is very private with a garage wall, lots of trees, bushes and a large private parking area shielding me from my few neighbours and a stony entrance path warns me of anyone approaching. It’s only small but I have various ‘rooms’ which I wander to and from depending on the sun/wind. My back ‘garden’ is a walled paved area overlooking a field of sheep and facing North. It also houses the oil tank which can be a bit pongy

jeanrobinson Tue 01-Jun-21 12:27:04

I now live in a convenient flat, as an elderly widow. Sadly, the people who bought our house thought they would pave the
front garden and use it for parking. They were prevented from doing so by the council, but they had sadly already chopped down the lovely amelanchier canadensis we had planted, which had lovely blossom in the spring and red leaves in the autumn.

justwokeup Tue 01-Jun-21 13:02:24

We live in a small narrow cul-de-sac, with only one spare on-road parking space that doesn't interfere with driveways. Most neighbours have AC or friends who call round regularly, as do we, so we paved over our front garden to accommodate 3 cars. However, last minute, I saw a garden around the corner which had a raised flower bed and found we had room to do the same. Then I added pots in the spare places. Now we have parking and bees and butterflies. Sadly no room for seating as we do get the sun on the front in the evenings.

TrendyNannie6 Tue 01-Jun-21 13:08:18

?? that’s hilarious getting tutted at simply cos you sitting in your front garden, while we don’t sit in our front garden I think it’s up to the owner of their property where they sit, ?? I could understand it if you were perched on top of your roof! Nowt so queer as folk