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Is the music industry failing youngsters?

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Mattsmum2 Sat 05-Jun-21 12:17:41

Think it’s more about how parents teach their children, manners etc and not the music they are exposed to. The spice girls were risky in their time but my daughter loved them and has turned out ok. In fact I remember a fancy dress party for her 13th birthday, the theme was 70’s and she dressed well, but all her friends looked like tarts and she knew it. BTS and K pop seem to be genuinely nice blokes.

EllanVannin Sat 05-Jun-21 12:15:09

How many of these top artists have committed suicide ? Says it all really !

Chestnut Sat 05-Jun-21 12:08:07

Namsnanny

But he wasnt advocating everyone be like him Ilovecheesegrin

The current crazy of Drill (meaning to knife someone, ostensibly in the back) music is terrifying.
The 'artists' usually have two versions of their songs. One for the radio, who will only play the edited version, and another for the internet which has more violent misogynistic lyrics.
Guess which one most children access?

That's my point really. Music has gone down a very dark tunnel and is taking the children there. They are always going to follow today's music. The music industry decide who will be promoted and who they will listen to, and I don't understand why they promote such stuff.

Kate1949 Sat 05-Jun-21 12:06:24

I was just about to add what you put in your last sentence Chestnut. I was a fanatical Beatles fan, queuing for hours for tickets with my friends, buying every magazine with them in it. We joined the fan club, sent them letters, all sorts. We saw many of the bands of the day live - Stones, Kinks all sorts. It was our world.
Our granddaughter is out of her teens now but she used like a different group or singer every few weeks. Still times change.

May7 Sat 05-Jun-21 12:05:28

greenlady102 grin

JaneJudge Sat 05-Jun-21 12:03:32

The has always been depressing stuff. Radiohead springs to mind

Manhattan Sat 05-Jun-21 12:02:27

This from Nick Hornby's High Fidelity:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=nSlleE9s9gI

Even the upbeat stuff was often about misery and loss.

Chestnut Sat 05-Jun-21 12:00:40

Blondiescot I do sometimes wonder how youngsters survived the punk period! At 13-14 years I was listening to 'She Loves You' and 'I want to Hold your Hand'. All very innocent. I can't imagine what it would have been like to be exposed to the Sex Pistols at age 13.

greenlady102 Sat 05-Jun-21 11:58:02

A bit off topic but Socrates said this
“The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.”

Namsnanny Sat 05-Jun-21 11:57:25

But he wasnt advocating everyone be like him Ilovecheesegrin

The current crazy of Drill (meaning to knife someone, ostensibly in the back) music is terrifying.
The 'artists' usually have two versions of their songs. One for the radio, who will only play the edited version, and another for the internet which has more violent misogynistic lyrics.
Guess which one most children access?

Peasblossom Sat 05-Jun-21 11:56:35

To be honest, I don’t know. I’ve totally given up listening and watching most anything to do with music, so I guess I agree?

OH just plays stuff from his youth (which is even further back than mine?)

Blondiescot Sat 05-Jun-21 11:55:01

Absolute nonsense - as someone else has pointed out, artistes like Elvis, The Beatles and The Rolling Stones were all denounced for allegedly corrupting young people - and I bet a lot of you moaning about today's music loved them! What about punk - that was my music in my early teens, and somehow I survived and became a (relatively) normal adult...
Music has always been about rebellion - and long may that be the case.

Chestnut Sat 05-Jun-21 11:53:40

Peasblossom my groups were the Beatles, the Beach Boys etc. from the 1960s. Of course things changed during the 60s as the music developed. But the early 60s had plenty of stuff for youngsters (the Mersey Sound, the Monkees etc). Then in the 1970s the teenyboppers had the Bay City Rollers to scream at.
There is nothing like that now is there?

timetogo2016 Sat 05-Jun-21 11:48:42

Totally agree Chestnut,the fun has gone out of music.
All the money some of them make and they dress like tramps/tarts and then they are depressed and have mental health issues.
Get in the real world you overpaid prima donas.
Too much money,too much attention not enough thought for the youngsters who spend their money lining their pockets.
I played Funky Moped and the Laughing Gnome when i had 2 of my gc.and they loved it,i thought about Ding a Ling then thought maybe not and yet...........why not.

Peasblossom Sat 05-Jun-21 11:45:17

I distinctly remember Elvis, the Beatles and the Rolling Stones being denounced as immoral and leading us astray?

Obviously you’re a bit younger than me Chestnut. I was up to my eyes in nappies and school runs when your heroes were around?

Ellianne Sat 05-Jun-21 11:42:08

I don't mind the raunchy dancing and revealing costumes, it is all part of the "show". Just an act. Kylie's shows are actually very very raunchy.
I am more interested in how these celebrities behave off stage and how their lifestyles influence the younger generation's choices.

Ilovecheese Sat 05-Jun-21 11:33:27

Leonard Cohen was pretty depressing to be fair.

Chestnut Sat 05-Jun-21 10:57:59

It worries me that youngsters are watching and listening to artists and songs with totally adult content. The Brit Awards (celebrating today's music!) was an adult event, really not suitable for the 10-14 age group. The raunchy dancing, the swearing, it was awful. As I said, many of the men looked like tramps and the girls like tarts! Youngsters need better role models than that.

Ellianne Sat 05-Jun-21 10:44:56

Yes, exactly where I was coming from on another thread Chestnut. In my job I have to interview year 6 children for their next schools. When asked what career they wish to follow many will reply "popstar, model, footballer." That is because the celebrities appear to have it all.
The irony is that most of these celebrities then come along and tell us how unhappy they are and how difficult life is for them. I just don't get it.

Chestnut Sat 05-Jun-21 10:30:41

It seems to me the music industry is failing the younger age group 10-14. I watched the Brit Awards, and all I saw were Tramps and Tarts plus lots of swearing.

It's either:
- slow depressing songs of misery and angst
- rapping black boys singing goodness knows what
- girl groups who look like strippers

Where are the Kylies and Jasons, Rick Astleys, Bay City Rollers, Monkees, all the fun groups that used to be around for young teenagers? As far as I can see the music industry is failing to provide happy bubble gum music for the 10-14 age group, thus forcing them to listen to what is adult music.

Correct me if I’m wrong, please do, because I’m feeling so sorry for youngsters of today who seem to be missing out on happy music.