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Magazines - entertaining or demoralising?

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hamster58 Wed 16-Jun-21 15:56:32

I’m sure I didn’t notice this until quite recently but I wonder if others feel this way…. If I read most magazines aimed at women my age, they are filled with articles about superwomen who can seemingly achieve several careers at once, or articles telling me the signs for endless illnesses ( physical or mental), clothes that are either impractical and/or outrageously priced, and recipes which are super complicated but don’t need to be. I end up feeling irritated by such magazines and far less relaxed than before I started!! Am I an old grouch or does anyone else agree?…

NotSpaghetti Thu 17-Jun-21 11:23:54

I think this must reflect the type of magazine you read.
If I had the spare cash I'd take Interiors, Surface, Selvedge, Dezeen, Wallpaper.... I could go on.
I don't think any of these are demoralising!
All are interesting and beautiful!

clairefraser1 Thu 17-Jun-21 11:23:56

I get the Peoples Friend which has short stories, usually a knitting pattern, recipes, an article on a place and a few regular contributors. Very feel good unlike a lot of magazines which just seem to look at the seedier side of life

Alioop Thu 17-Jun-21 11:24:59

I love house magazines, but they got that expensive that I could of bought a book for the same price so I cancelled my subscriptions on the both of them.

Witzend Thu 17-Jun-21 11:29:58

I stopped buying them after I counted the pages of advertisements in a glossy mag - IIRC it was about 70% of the mag!
I’ll still read anything like GH or interiors/antiques while at the hairdresser or dentist, though.

It was ages ago, but I do remember a very funny Posy Simmonds cartoon strip about someone reading the sort of ‘perfect life’ article you mean, OP. The reader’s face became gradually more hacked off as she read the sheer gushingness - and eventually stuffed the whole thing in the bin!

Grandmajean Thu 17-Jun-21 11:31:45

NotTooOld

Grandmajean

I used to like Good Housekeeping but don't buy it any more. Got really fed up with the "I love getting older" articles from famous women whose photos have so obviously been treated to wrinkle removal. I also got tired of the Christmas editions where everybody was hosting a fantastic family event . Haven;t bough a magazine for ages .

I so agree, especially about the Christmas editions, which can make one feel very depressed, and the 'getting older - how wonderful' articles which frequently feature Helen Mirren or Joanna Lumley. But my pet hate is the fashion section. Are there really people out there who pay £500 for a winter coat? What madness is this? And then there are the interior design sections 'showcasing' posh houses in the Cotswolds. And I must mention the recipes, lavishly illustrated, which have me yawning before I'm half way through reading the extremely long list of ingredients. No, women's mags are not for me. I much prefer The Oldie which contains interesting and informative articles as well as lots of humour (and ads at the back for 'discrete massages with attractive continental lady'. What's that all about? grin)

Don't forget Twiggy - she's always there banging on about loving being old ! Oh , yes , the fabulous Cotswold houses . The owner is usually hosting Christmas there with a lot of people staying over to frolic in the snow and drink mulled wine ! Suppose it gives me a laugh. Haven't heard of The oldie !!

Fernhillnana Thu 17-Jun-21 11:46:36

Don’t buy beauty magazines, they only make you feel ugly (said a wise man).

Nan59 Thu 17-Jun-21 11:47:25

Loved magazine all my life but now, at 59, nothing seems to fit! I used to love GH but I’m not interested in sex toys, or cosmetic surgery or clothes at 1000’s of pounds a pop. However I’m not ready for some targeted at the ‘older’ market either. I have started to download free magazines on Prime so, if I’m not interested , I send them back, but still miss the thrill of a printed copy!

TanaMa Thu 17-Jun-21 11:49:43

Only glance at them when in a waiting room - too many adverts (I know they are necessary) clothes which are too expensive and I would never wear, so called 'celebs' boasting about latest marriage, boyfriend, baby, holidays, new 'fantastic homes', plastic surgery (Katie Price an example who is supposedly bankrupt!!). Prefer to save my money.

Gransey Thu 17-Jun-21 11:52:24

I recently discovered that I can now read over 197 different magazines via my LIBBY app. Completely free of charge including back issues and some newspapers too. I get notifications of new issues of the ones I’ve been reading like New Scientist and National Geographic. Seems amazing to me that access is free, all you need to download Libby is a library card. If you can’t download Libby I believe the same access is available via Overdrive?

hamster58 Thu 17-Jun-21 11:53:11

Loved reading all your messages everyone! I’m definitely going to look up The Oldie as I’ve never heard of it. I don’t actually buy these but was given a pile so felt almost obliged to flick through them. I’m so pleased I’m not the only one feeling as I do. Yesterday’s stand out thing I noticed was a fashion shoot showing a ‘perfect’ woman wearing an outfit suited to tea at the Ritz costing around £700 in total, and she was pushing a wheelbarrow full of leaves!!! Don’t think anyone would photograph the clothes I would wear to do that smile….

coastalgran Thu 17-Jun-21 11:54:36

I tend to read magazines like Country Living and Period Homes and look at the lovely houses and gardens and get ideas that I can convert on my budget for my own home and garden. I also love to read about crafts, artisan workers and the food recipes and food producers in these sorts of magazines. I'm not really interested in the others.

BlueRuby Thu 17-Jun-21 11:55:18

I stopped reading/buying them years ago. Very demoralising! They are so expensive, too, considering most pages have an advert telling you to buy something, be something, do something! Sometimes I buy gardening magazines. Better to buy a nice book once a month! Easy recipes with 5 ingredients from Jamie Oliver (and others probably). Gardening books etc. They don't have loads of adverts making you feel inadequate and they last for years!

Grandmajean Thu 17-Jun-21 11:57:22

hamster58

Loved reading all your messages everyone! I’m definitely going to look up The Oldie as I’ve never heard of it. I don’t actually buy these but was given a pile so felt almost obliged to flick through them. I’m so pleased I’m not the only one feeling as I do. Yesterday’s stand out thing I noticed was a fashion shoot showing a ‘perfect’ woman wearing an outfit suited to tea at the Ritz costing around £700 in total, and she was pushing a wheelbarrow full of leaves!!! Don’t think anyone would photograph the clothes I would wear to do that smile….

That "pushing a wheelbarrow" made me laugh out loud hamster58

SusieFlo Thu 17-Jun-21 12:00:33

Only buy a gardening magazine nowadays after looking for best subscription rates. Get given others occasionally though. Expensive and full of adverts. Articles don’t seem to have any depth in them, Then there are the articles on healthy eating, you then turn the page to find recipes for amazing cakes?

lovebeigecardigans1955 Thu 17-Jun-21 12:02:10

The only magazines I see on a regular basis nowadays are the supplements which come with the weekend newspapers. The fashion is laughable and many other articles are of little interest. Items about people are more interesting and aren't
always about 'super women', thank goodness.

I used to get interiors mags, but rarely now. I know what my taste is and feel I don't need to worry about the latest trends.

jaylucy Thu 17-Jun-21 12:10:02

Depends which magazines you read and why you read them!
I personally steer away from the "celebrity" ones and often the ones that reckon certain women can do it all are basically because the women have often had outside help , be it from nannies/nurseries for their children and a good PA for their business side!
I often wonder if, somewhere down the line, they will sit back and wonder at what they have missed in their private life such as time spent with husband or partner, their friends, their children etc?
When all is said and done, you can only do what you can do and everyone needs to make time and appreciate what they have and cherish those around them .

timetogo2016 Thu 17-Jun-21 12:11:37

I stopped buying them years ago hampster58 for that very reason.

jomo Thu 17-Jun-21 12:12:59

TRY THE PEOPLES FRIEND loads of stories couple serials

good articles and cooking pages good buy all round . i pay every 12 weeks and get delivered and save money. well worth it .

Growing0ldDisgracefully Thu 17-Jun-21 12:13:47

The only magazines I ever read, because they are part of my membership, is the National Trust and the Institute of Advanced Motorists. Usually just skim them and bin them. I don't buy magazines otherwise.

lizzypopbottle Thu 17-Jun-21 12:14:33

I dropped my subscription to Woman & Home for various of the reasons you mentioned but particularly the sponsored fashion pages that use ultra thin models. I'm pretty skinny, naturally, myself but I don't like seeing these girls who live on cotton wool in order to make a living.

Forestflame Thu 17-Jun-21 12:17:23

The only magazine s I have regularly are Logic Problems and 'Crime monthly'. However, I am going to look for the oldie and look at People's Fiend as well.

DanniRae Thu 17-Jun-21 12:21:02

I think it's a good idea to buy special interest magazines but I am yet to find one that caters for my special interests....... sitting around doing as little as possible, only wearing clothes that are comfortable and cheap and, of course going on Gransnet for hours on end!!!!!
Any ideas, please? grin

TAS30 Thu 17-Jun-21 12:25:03

I do buy women’s monthly magazines, prefer them to the weekly gossipy magazines. Always articles on food, books, gardening, fashion and beauty and short stories that I enjoy. I agree that the celebrity features are annoying though, I tend to ignore them! Also like the odd home and travel magazine.

Saggi Thu 17-Jun-21 12:28:55

Don’t read these ‘glossies’ Thousands of excellent books out there . Why would you read this stuff?! The only one I do read and it’s on subscription is ‘Free Inquiry’ ....it drops through letterbox every couple of months.

knspol Thu 17-Jun-21 12:33:33

Always enjoy reading/looking through Hello and OK mags at the hairdresser but wouldn't bother to buy either, full of people I've mostly never heard of and nothing worth reading. Do get the monthly RHS mag and that's useful.