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Why is drinking alcohol so popular?

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ElderlyPerson Sat 19-Jun-21 16:08:34

I am male. When I was younger, in my 20s, there was often social pressure to drink alcohol.

I have never smoked, always avoided it, but I have tried beer, uh, I thought it tasted horrible, so no. I have tried sherry, why the fuss about it? I had some wine once, well, didn't seem anything worth drinking to me. I know, out of step with most people, I am wondering what they all see in it. I get offers from a well-known supermarket for bottles of wine for ONLY £4.99, which seems a lot of money to me. I think that it is a good job that I don't drink alcohol, I don't think I could afford to!

I think that the most recent time I drank alcohol was over forty years ago at a cousin's wedding, and then only a sip from a glass of champagne so as not to appear rude.

I always had a soft drink at events in a pub or staff parties and the like. Certainly I would not drink and drive anyway, but saying 'no thank you, I'm driving' when offered alcohol was a convenient get out.

Yet drinking alcohol seems very popular. I think I saw somewhere that a lot of young adults these days do not drink alcohol and that is now mainstream culturally widely accepted, whereas years ago, the bemused attitude to someone male who did not have a 'proper' drink was widespread.

I think that some people reading this who like an alcoholic drink may wonder in amazement at why I just don't understand why, but I am really don't understand why drinking alcohol is so popular and supplying it is such a major industry, though recognising from my limited experience of going in pubs that they always seemed to have a small selection of soft drinks available, though some seemed to be dual purpose, such as either a soft drink or as a mixer to make some sort of cocktail.

Rufus2 Mon 21-Jun-21 14:45:18

Unfair to hounds Rufus
Maw Bless my soul! Is there nothing I can talk about without it feeling demeaned? and if you think I'm going to click on that link, you've got another think coming!
Looks as if you 've had more than one too many and slumped on to your keyboard. grin
OoRoo

Smileless2012 Mon 21-Jun-21 14:48:03

Great post Amberwinesmile

Bijou Mon 21-Jun-21 14:48:29

In the 1920s my mother was advised to have a Guiness a day by her doctor. We always had a bottle of wine at Christmas or other occasions and we children were allowed a little taste.
During the war in the Forces off duty or on leave going to dances or the pub and having a drink was a way of forgetting that “our number could be up”. I only got drunk once at that time but that did not put me off alcohol. Although I have never had more than a glass or two.
Nowadays at age of 98 I enjoy a small glass of Guiness with my lunch and a little red wine with my evening meal.
I cannot understand why TV plays show people drinking wine or spirits so much sometimes straight from the bottle.

AmberSpyglass Mon 21-Jun-21 14:48:45

Jett but why is it brainwashing in a way that other kinds of consumerism isn’t?! And children only suffer if parents drink excessively or inappropriately.

Peff68 Mon 21-Jun-21 14:48:47

Each to their own to be fair but you are coming across a bit superior. It’s not all of a sudden ‘popular’, it has been since humans learned how to ferment fruit/honey!

Most people enjoy a small drink just to unwind and they enjoy the taste of it, there are a few who drink to excess and suffer for it. I would imagine you were popular for providing lifts?!

AmberSpyglass Mon 21-Jun-21 14:52:06

I can’t stand dill, even in moderation. It’s not an allergy, I just think it tastes of feet. But I’m not judging the whole of Swedish cuisine because it revolves around the stuff! I just order something else.

homefarm Mon 21-Jun-21 14:53:14

Kgnw28225 why do you need alcohol to enjoy yourself?

Jac53 Mon 21-Jun-21 14:54:03

I drink alcohol because I like the taste of a good wine with my food or a gin and tonic. I also like some ciders and beers but only now and again and never too much(not so when I was younger!). There is a lot of over drinking in our society and it's damaging. There are some excellent alternatives now, try Kambucha.

ElderlyPerson Mon 21-Jun-21 14:54:17

I remember once seeing a book about wine, where there were maps of vineyards, lists of the grape types in various wines and so on, all the romance of it quite apart from drinking it.

Bottles with nicely designed, even collectable, labels and so on.

Yet grape juice was just in cartons, red or white.

I have wondered why a similar approach to marketing grape juice had not happened, books about the vineyards, bottles of grape juice with artistic labels, the cultivar of grape mentioned, the vineyard and so on.

Just red or white.

TrendyNannie6 Mon 21-Jun-21 14:57:21

I don’t drink at all, doesn’t appeal to me, yes I always smile when the estate agents on the house buying programmes say, lovely garden to sit in and have few glasses of wine, that’s the last thing I want to do ?? but each to their own, give me a cuppa anyway, we always have alcoholic drinks in our house though for visitors,I can certainly have a good time and enjoy myself without touching a drop,

Lilyflower Mon 21-Jun-21 15:05:59

I only drink at the week ends and not much then but, my, that first sip of fizz in a proper flute is nice.

AmberSpyglass Mon 21-Jun-21 15:10:07

ElderlyPerson Because the process to make wine and make grape juice is entirely different? Grape juice doesn’t rely on the heritage of a vinyard and the quality of grape is entirely different. They’re hardly going to market it as “Well, this is actually a bit shit if you’re comparing it to wine,” are they?!

ElderlyPerson Mon 21-Jun-21 15:33:32

I really don't like that word.

I wince when a character in a television play or a movie uses it.

There seems to me to be no need for it.

NotSpaghetti Mon 21-Jun-21 15:50:55

ElderlyPerson

I remember once seeing a book about wine, where there were maps of vineyards, lists of the grape types in various wines and so on, all the romance of it quite apart from drinking it.

Bottles with nicely designed, even collectable, labels and so on.

Yet grape juice was just in cartons, red or white.

I have wondered why a similar approach to marketing grape juice had not happened, books about the vineyards, bottles of grape juice with artistic labels, the cultivar of grape mentioned, the vineyard and so on.

Just red or white.

I would think that this is because most grape juice is made from concentrates. If it were bottled at the production site it’s likely to be very expensive.

Maybe some would pay a fiver for a bottled at source grape juice but I think most would not.
A lot of grape juice is blended I think you’ll find.

There are a few out there if you look:
www.chateau-du-payre.fr/products-1/grape-juices/
- there was one made by Terroir that I’m struggling to find as well.
Lots of the cider makers also do an apple juice - I have bought that by variety in the past.

trisher Mon 21-Jun-21 15:54:32

Bijou my mother was told exactly the same thing in the 1940s when breast feeding her first child. Guiness was recommended as being full of iron and good for making milk! My grandmother believed nursing mothers needed lots of porridge and a bottle of Guiness daily. She also enjoyed a glass of something with her lunch and said it helped her digestion. She lived into her 90s as well, so perhaps it does do you good!!!

NotSpaghetti Mon 21-Jun-21 15:55:00

Aah, here’s another with more info than most (ie it’s from Nantes)…
www.ocado.com/products/daylesford-organic-grape-juice-50212011
£4.29 for 750ml (wine bottle size)

Elvis58 Mon 21-Jun-21 15:56:58

I have the odd glass of wine, whiskey, and gin with flavoured tonics as a long drink as l enjoy it.
I dont understand the youth of today who have to drink till they are blotto and not in control of their actions makes no sense to me at all.
That said l understand the camaraderie of going to the pub with friends so each to their own, l say.

AmberSpyglass Mon 21-Jun-21 15:57:45

ElderlyPerson

But you do understand the point, yes? You’re comparing entirely different drinks.

AmberSpyglass Mon 21-Jun-21 15:58:56

Elvis58 Statistically, the youth of today don’t though. Drinking, especially binge-drinking, is down pretty dramatically.

Namsnanny Mon 21-Jun-21 16:05:51

If it helps the conversation EP, research on monkeys shows that the same percentage of them become addicted to alcohol (available from fermented fruit) as do people.

This was carried out on troops which had access to unlimited amounts of alcohol in the form of beer.
As well as those who just sought out fermented juice found in their environment.
The percentage stayed the same between the group who ate/drank fermented fruit juice to excess, and who were given access to strong beer.
The concensus was, primates have a similar proportion of hereditary (?) Gene's which led to an attraction to and an addiction with alcohol.

Other mammals have shown similar reactions.

But, not everyone will consume in the same way.
I presume because they dont have an addictive personality.
As other posters have said, and enjoy it if and when they want to.

There is a lot of advertising (pressure?) attached to socialising with alcohol, which makes sense, when you understand the lack of inhibition it promotes.

Cherrytree59 Mon 21-Jun-21 16:18:47

Agree ayse re todays youngster, my local gym is frequented by very health conscious youngsters.

Our village has a very popular running group and also cycling club.
The members are from teenagers right through to retirees.

Many of these youngsters seem to be shunning cigarettes, alcohol and unhealthy food in favour a health and Instagram bodies.

Coco51 Mon 21-Jun-21 16:24:51

ElderlyPerson. I understand you completely. I did drink a little sometimes when younger, but very little and mostly at christmas. ExDH was a banker and got loads of spirits, wine etc at christmas. It was left in my sideboard when he left and just stayed there - until my OH moved in and then it was gone in a flash. He drinks every day (4 cans guinness) and a bottle of brandy or whisky doesn’t last a week - he is rarely ’drunk’, but I don’t understand the compulsion, except that his son took his own life 18 years ago, and there is some dulling of the hurt. DD was an extremely heavy drinker until she had her children, and then reduced her intake somewhat, but not enough to stop me worrying. DS and partner seem to have wine every night and he smokes. I had an unfortunate reaction to antibiotics which caused my immune system to go into overdrive attacking my liver and have medicine to counteract harmful medicines etc. I have to take to stay alive, so I stick to non-alcoholic drinks. But most of all I think there is a self-destruct attitude amongst some people who don’t think old age and the consequences of excess will visit upon them

tictacnana Mon 21-Jun-21 17:01:00

Alcohol has always been popular. Not too long ago, beer was the only safe form of hydration as drinking water was often a deadly affair. I don’t drink and I find parties can be a problem when people who have drunk too much get offended if I won’t. I was at a wedding where, later on the evening, the bride walloped me because I wouldn’t drink. She was tired , emotional and very drunk. I don’t mind others drinking but think it’s sad when it becomes mind altering.

greenlady102 Mon 21-Jun-21 17:04:05

ElderlyPerson

I really don't like that word.

I wince when a character in a television play or a movie uses it.

There seems to me to be no need for it.

what word? do you mean "shit"?

we all do it

Greeneyedgirl Mon 21-Jun-21 17:04:27

I think some people deceive themselves about alcohol dependency, especially if they don’t get drunk regularly, but have a daily drink or two and would find it hard to stop this regular habit.