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Feel the fear and do it anyway

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Casdon Thu 24-Jun-21 13:32:09

Driving doesn’t cause me any anxiety at all, I’ll happily drive anywhere without thinking anything of it, and I’m happy to take the car to the garage, etc. too.

Don’t ever put me in a room with a spider, or expect me to ring anybody to get work done in the house though, both those freak me out. Illogical aren’t we?

Gingster Thu 24-Jun-21 13:29:05

Oh wow that sounds amazing! Can’t wait! ?. ?

GrannyGravy13 Thu 24-Jun-21 13:15:57

Gingster

Well done GG . I haven’t driven on the A127 or A130 for years. I think it’s a bit of a phobia. As soon as I approach these roads, I have a panic attack . Not good when you’re behind the wheel.?

Don’t worry when we eventually sort out our meet-up I will come and pick you up (I can put the top down so we shall be outside technically ?)

Gingster Thu 24-Jun-21 13:13:50

Well done GG . I haven’t driven on the A127 or A130 for years. I think it’s a bit of a phobia. As soon as I approach these roads, I have a panic attack . Not good when you’re behind the wheel.?

GrannyGravy13 Thu 24-Jun-21 13:04:38

I have always been a fairly confident driver, whizzing round the M25 has never fazed me, that is until lockdown when I went for four months not driving anywhere and approximately eight months without seeing let alone driving on a duel carriageway.

I now make myself drive on the A127 / A130 and the duel part of the A13 at least once a week, my driving mojo is slowly but surely returning.

Granmarderby10 Thu 24-Jun-21 12:59:48

Still don’t like speaking into a recorded message but get along fine with Alexa, Siri, and hey Google!

Lucca Thu 24-Jun-21 12:52:44

I play in matches in spite of often being nervous and worried about making a fool of myself.

Gingster Thu 24-Jun-21 12:50:38

Well done Maw. It’s strange how over the years we get anxious about small things.
I don’t drive on motorways or dual carriageways. Get panicky, although I think I’m a good driver. Don’t like driving anywhere really but have to make myself. No one has time or patience on the road.

Talullah Thu 24-Jun-21 12:49:25

And well done, MawBe*!

Talullah Thu 24-Jun-21 12:48:57

I love going to our tip. The men who work there have fashioned a garden with unloved gnomes and plastic herons brightening the area.
Every day I have to face my fear. We have sacks of nuts and mealworms for the birds and once I got my scoop and a mouse ran over my hand. Talk about scream. Embarrassing. But even now I tiptoe towards the sack with trepidation.

greenlady102 Thu 24-Jun-21 12:46:22

well done!

MawBe Thu 24-Jun-21 12:43:42

I have never much liked going to the dump- in the past it has been a rather noisy, almost aggressively “male” place when the staff are grumpy and I feel clueless. Now that you have to book a slot online I felt even more intimidated but in fact because it was quieter, the staff were positively welcoming and much more helpful and this morning I conquered that fear.
The other achievement was to take my car to the “hand” car wash. Again, somewhere I do not feel comfortable - do I turn the engine off ? Then what does the man mean, is he indicating I should move forward,? I can’t see a blind thing through the soapy windscreen. The end result is a sweeter smelling shiny car and it’s the best £22 I ever spend (gone up since I was last there as I had to pluck up my courage!)
So what do you “fear” and then “do anyway” ? Whether it is driving on the motorway or dealing with spiders, sometimes we just have to get on with it, dont we?