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Scared? I sure was but still did it.

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muse Mon 09-Aug-21 17:25:16

I've always had an avid interest in local history and what life was like, particularly in the Victorian period. So when, in the early 1980s, I was asked if I'd like to go down an old victorian lead mine near Cromford, Derbyshire, I said yes. The local society told me what would be involved.

I would have to crawl through a hole in the hillside no wider than a meter. That was the entrance to small cavern. From there we would crawl through tunnels created by the miners. I was told there would be places where I would not be able to stand up.

Bearing in mind I am scared of pitch darkness and if in a small space for any length of time, I'm claustrophobic, I still did it.

These treasured photos are of me in one the tunnels. The marks on the wall have been made by the miners. Their only light was a candle. At one point the leader said he would leave his head light on and asked us to turn ours off. Then for a couple of seconds, turned his off too ?. This gave us some idea of what the conditions were like for men, women and children down that mine.

I've done a few crazy things in my life before and since that but nothing so scary. That's a very brave nervous smile from me.

By choice, have you ever attempted something that you knew would scare the sh.. out of you but you still did it.

MissAdventure Wed 11-Aug-21 17:58:05

So do I!!!
I just would never, ever contemplate doing that.
My palms are all sweaty thinking about it. shock

Hellogirl1 Wed 11-Aug-21 16:15:07

Something I`ve always wanted to do, but have never had the chance, is wing walking. Even now, I`d love to give it a go. My kids think I`m mad!

muse Wed 11-Aug-21 10:24:58

sharon103

You are brave muse!
I only do what I'm comfortable with. I don't like heights and I wouldn't fancy going underground either.

That's what a passion for history does for me. At the time, I was in the middle of a study about the area and found the main occupation was working in the lead mines. Many of the families had come over from Ireland to live and work there.

Callistemon Thanks for the link. I will follow it up. If I remember correctly, the youngest child I found in my study was nine. Life expectance - lucky if you lived beyond 50.

Lovetopaint037 Wed 11-Aug-21 09:53:39

Paraglide in Greece. That was great for a middle aged woman in the eighties. Then there was a balloon ride twenty years ago which was great. A couple of helicopter rides in Hawaii and New Zealand where we got off on a glacier in the brightest sun ever.

Witzend Wed 11-Aug-21 04:27:50

Years ago, parasailing while on holiday. Dds had done it and were saying, Go on, Mum! I knew I’d hate it, but also knew they’d call me a wimp if I didn’t, so I went - and hated it.

Nowadays I’m old enough to say a firm no thanks to anything I know I’m going to hate, and I couldn’t give a monkey’s if anyone thinks I’m a wimp.

sharon103 Tue 10-Aug-21 23:36:44

You are brave muse!
I only do what I'm comfortable with. I don't like heights and I wouldn't fancy going underground either.

Esspee Tue 10-Aug-21 23:18:07

I have an interest in Egyptology. I have squeezed into and crawled through some really scary tombs. I most have been crazy looking back on it.

Callistemon Tue 10-Aug-21 22:36:43

Luckily there was a long, less steep way down.

MissAdventure Tue 10-Aug-21 22:23:13

I got an upset stomach on the way down. blush

Callistemon Tue 10-Aug-21 22:00:45

I looked down!

MissAdventure Tue 10-Aug-21 21:32:36

Yes, there wasn't any footholds; the guide had to place his foot somewhere and we had to use that to lever ourselves up.
I was wearing flipflops, too!
We started off with a leisurely walk across a suspended wooden slanted bridge, with no rope rails. shock

Callistemon Tue 10-Aug-21 20:25:08

MissAdventure

Climbed up the Atlas mountains.
I didn't want to climb, but I was nervous of waiting back for hours while my (more adventurous) friend went.
It was horrific.
I spent all of the climb crying and clinging round the guide's neck.
We had thought it was a trip to see the mountains.
To say I was petrified is an understatement.

I went rock climbing once with someone who was quite experienced but with no ropes or anything. It was a terrible experience and I think I developed a fear of heights from that time.

M0nica Tue 10-Aug-21 19:24:15

Back in the 1960s. I went down Lynemouth Colliery in Northumberland. It went two miles out under the North Sea, but it was a big modern mine and big cutting machinery was used so all the tunnels were a bit like being on the tube.

I have also been down the mine near Wakefield, where te National Mining Museum is based. They turn the lights off at one point and then tell you about the three year olds who sat in the dark all day opening and shutting a door as the trucks of coal came through, pushed by their mothers.

I do not suffer claustrophobia somewhere like the above where it is all organised and a way out, but I hate being trapped in crowds. I will take along alternative route, even on foot, to avoid crods and hate, hate, hate, any stadium event because of the feeling of being trapped in a crowd.

MissAdventure Tue 10-Aug-21 19:11:47

No paragraphs. confused

MissAdventure Tue 10-Aug-21 19:06:20

Climbed up the Atlas mountains.
I didn't want to climb, but I was nervous of waiting back for hours while my (more adventurous) friend went.
It was horrific.
I spent all of the climb crying and clinging round the guide's neck.
We had thought it was a trip to see the mountains.
To say I was petrified is an understatement.

Grandmafrench Tue 10-Aug-21 18:46:58

First sentence, muse, I'm right with you.

After that and hearing other posters' experiences I experienced the same unpleasant feelings I have once I am shut in and really unable to move. And that's just reading. A friend and I went on a picnic one Sunday in the Mendips when I was still at school. We were accompanied by two young male friends who were going to do some pot-holing. My one and only experience wasn't too bad : we actually clambered with them down into the first cave (easily accessed from the middle of a large bush!). I sat on a rock while they went struggled and slid down a 'chimney' into a chamber below. After about 20 minutes I was concerned - no noise, no voices in response to our calls. I dropped a pebble - then we got some noise, quite a few strong words as the pebble bounced on the helmet of one of the guys as it gave him a fright. Not sure how long they struggled to get further below, but it made me feel a bit panicky and I was glad to see them again and to climb out of the bush onto a sunny hillside (to the amazement of some walkers).

When my children were small, I was persuaded to go into one of the Welsh gold mines. Can't recall which one. This is possibly because the experience was so awful. No climbing just a good, slippery walk to reach the main cave where a pompous and very stupid old 'guide' gave us all a lecture on the history of the mine and then, without warning and to 'give us the experience', turned off every light. I actually couldn't breathe and when the lights finally came back on, I only wanted to punch him in the face! I've been in other caves - Wookey Hole being one - but never had someone in charge of a huge party of people behave so stupidly.

Caves, narrow places, tight high steps in castles, places from which there is no retreat, are now definitely not for me. Alton Towers? Not sure what fortunes would have to change hands for me to participate. But some, often young, people thrive on the adrenaline rush! I honestly can't imagine paying to be scared witless. Each to his own, however!

Hellogirl1 Tue 10-Aug-21 17:49:07

We visited a tin mine in Cornwall. They didn`t take us very far in, we went in at ground level, but the passage was so narrow, I doubt I`d get down there now without getting stuck!

Shandy57 Tue 10-Aug-21 16:49:34

My husband was six foot three welbeck, I'm five foot two, he was nervous too but it made sense for me to go. I was also a bit nervous to stay outside with the men selling items, they were so pushy and shoving things into our faces.

Callistemon Tue 10-Aug-21 16:00:22

welbeck

that sounds horrid.
why didn't your husband take the boy in, then you could have waited outside with the girl ?

Perhaps because Shandy plucked up her courage and did it because she might never pass that way again?

I'd have done the same, Shandy, DS has been with me on some trips when others wouldn't go and we've never regretted it.

Kim19 Tue 10-Aug-21 15:48:41

No, I was a bit earlier than that Shandy but can't remember the actual year.

welbeck Tue 10-Aug-21 15:48:06

that sounds horrid.
why didn't your husband take the boy in, then you could have waited outside with the girl ?

Shandy57 Tue 10-Aug-21 15:39:04

How funny Kim, I wonder if we were there at the same time! 2009 for me. I'm sure H&S was out the window.

Shandy57 Tue 10-Aug-21 15:37:46

I went into the pyramids in Cairo with my son, my daughter was too short and not allowed so my husband stayed outside with her.

I do suffer with claustrophobia but knew we'd never go back again, and my son was so excited, so I screwed up my courage. I regretted it almost instantly as we crouched into the dark deep tunnel, bent double, we had to walk on ladder rungs, just slats of wood to stop us slipping, along with hundreds of other people coming back out. I had a long skirt on and flip flops and kept stepping on the skirt, and there hardly seemed to be any air at all. Probably some poor mother in there right now, wishing she hadn't agreed!

Kim19 Tue 10-Aug-21 15:36:05

I remember having to go backwards and semi crouching down into the heart of a pyramid. Half way down I began to feel totally claustrophobic but was in the middle of a group and somehow held my cool. All of the guide's informative spiel went completely over my head. I did ask if I could make my way out alone but another group was already making its way down. He did allow me to go immediately ahead of him on the way out and said I should try for the Olympics!

Mogsmaw Tue 10-Aug-21 15:31:12

I remember being at “Summerlee” a heritage museum with a small mock-up of a coal mine.
We were travelling back on the tram. Also onboard was a gran with two young boys decked out in new, shiny replica Celtic kits. ( and we know how expensive they are) They were manky! She looked on in despair saying “ what will your mum say”
I couldn’t resist suggesting “they look like they’ve been down a coal mine!”